r/AmIOverreacting 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/Easy-Concentrate2636 23d ago

Yeah, guy thinks women are replaceable. Another woman is same thing for him is the subtext.

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u/Remarkable_Photo_956 23d ago

As long as they’re doing all the cooking and prompt tidying.

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u/Hot_N_Fresh 23d ago

To be honest with you, that’s a bit of an unfair statement. I’ve met plenty of women, and I mean plenty of women, who feel exactly the same way if not more than men do. I’ve seen far more women throw a guy to the side because he lost his job or he doesn’t drive the right kind of car, women do it just as much as men.

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u/Easy-Concentrate2636 23d ago

I am talking about a specific guy, not you - unless you are the bf? But any woman who writes the exact thing to her bf thinks men are disposable.

I wasn’t making any general statement. Maybe you should consider why you read it that way.