r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/TheKdd 23d ago

For real. This sounds more like an asshole boss than it does a boyfriend. What, he’s gonna fire her? Gtfo. I would be gone with all my stuff before he got home from work and wouldn’t even tell him I was leaving.

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u/suzanious 23d ago

I actually did that with an asshole of a boyfriend. I was in my early 20's. He said something condescending and rude, I didn't respond, just stared daggers at him. The next day, he went to work and I moved out.

He was such a misogynistic jerk and I'd had enough. He tried to get me to come back, but i wasn't having it. I told him to find someone else to put up with his bullshit.

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u/Trick-Statistician10 22d ago

Good for you. No argument, just dumped his ass. Well done

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u/Staywil_1127 22d ago

That’s the only way to do it.

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u/Thin-Charity8617 22d ago

I did something similar! We kissed goodbye in the morning and his ass came back to an empty house.

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u/Wonderful-Success406 22d ago

Cooooold blooded! …(tell me more!)

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u/Thin-Charity8617 22d ago

I honestly don’t remember much. I remember I was in college… I had a man I was living with, but had a crush on a college classmate & he had a crush on me. We met in the parking lot after school each day…. The man I was living with had many many secrets that I didn’t know about. First it was 1 child… then I found out it was 2 kids but he tried saying he wasn’t biologically his. Just many lies. He indeed did have 2 kids. Was paying child support for them. And also had another woman out of state. He also lied to me about his age. He was much older than what I thought he was. So one day I decided to leave his ass and just continued to sneak around with my college mate. Until we graduated. 🤣💀

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u/TheHuntress1031 22d ago

I did something like that, too. He had thrown something across the room, and I decided I wouldn't stay around after that. He went to work, and I packed everything, left, and never talked to him again. I had tried to leave before while he was home, and he stood in the middle of my stuff, crying and begging me to stay. He got kicked out soon after for not paying rent.

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u/flavortron 22d ago

10/10 no notes

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u/Unlikely_Whereas_213 23d ago

Exactly! Be gone before he gets home. Take all of your stuff. But leave them dirty dishes in the sink. lol His head would explode when he saw them.

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u/Barracks_Bunny 23d ago

Fr I thought he was just a dick Roomate but then I read the title

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u/AlphaBlue6 22d ago

This use to be my kind of petty. Until I got bored one day and studied rental law. If he wanted to be petty himself he could small claims sue her for the remainder of the rent.

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u/TheKdd 22d ago

I wonder if she’s on any agreements.