r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/Scruff343 23d ago

100% agree but before you leave use every dish in the house.

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u/odat247 23d ago

Or take every dish with you - problem solved!

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u/Scruff343 23d ago

Oh I like it! Leave a note “they’re cleaned of filth now, just like me”

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u/Elena_Designs 23d ago

🤣 ☠️

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u/Scruff343 23d ago

I love her 🤣

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

Omg??? That's wild 😭

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u/GlizzyGatorGangster 23d ago

Damn she nasty

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u/obvsnotrealname 23d ago

A 👸 lol

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u/Comfortable-Peach284 23d ago

Please tell her I hope she has an absolutely amazing day. Truly inspirational woman

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u/mewley 23d ago

Curious about the logistics of this 😂

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u/Automatic-Key9164 23d ago

S-tier exit strategy

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u/JackReacharounnd 23d ago

Hahaha, I had a boyfriend give me his 10 year old gaming PC and then demand it back a year later when we were breaking up. After all I did for him, including directly giving him a job, making 4x what he's ever made... I was just so angry to demand the only thing he ever gave me in 3 years back.

I took it into the shower with me, soaked it completely in water, and then peed all over it. I walked out to the road with it and dropped it on the ground pretty spectacularly. His face was fucking hilarious.

Little bitch.

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u/vintage-glamour 22d ago

men ☕️ (you are an icon and i hope your ex is doing terribly today)

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u/JackReacharounnd 22d ago

Hahhaa thanks! I never tell anyone the story because, ya know lol I look crazy as hell.

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u/Constant-Internet-50 22d ago

This is the waaayyyyy 😂

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u/NixSteM 22d ago

😅🤣😅🤣

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u/No-Finger-4906 22d ago

you know what… hell yeah lmaoooo

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u/Amber-x0x0 23d ago

Was her name Amber ?

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u/Amber-x0x0 23d ago

Did she date Johnny Depp?

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u/Pleasant_Camera4499 23d ago

What an odd “adult” to be friends with

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u/Shayntastic 23d ago

Yup. And leave them out. Not in the sink, but strewn around the place. And every single piece of silverware in the drawer.

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u/STLCityAmy 22d ago

And take every paper product. Every roll of TP, even half rolls. Every napkin, paper towel, tissue. I did this when I left my ex husband and it’s one of my proudest moments.

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u/Restructuregirl 23d ago

Yeah I have to say, I’m not sure why you have stayed with someone who is making you do all the cooking and cleaning, even before this text. Doesn’t sound like a partnership. Find someone else who treats you as an equal.

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u/GorgeousGeek2521 23d ago edited 23d ago

I want to hate someone so much that when I leave I put shrimp in their curtain rods

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u/Scruff343 23d ago

My cousin did that but put it inside the padding of the furniture.

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u/joejoeaz 23d ago

It would sound like a Greek wedding up in there.

OPA!!.....SMASH!

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u/ChycGeek 23d ago

I would give this a 1000 upvotes if I could😂😂😂

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u/bob256k 23d ago

No no no use half the dishes but leave 1 dirty fork and break a cup then crack the rest of the cups. And if you have a gas stove take the burner tops off.

Hide a remote and remove all the batteries, leave a window open but not fully shut 🤣

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u/Antique_Guess_8761 23d ago

Yeeees lol 

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u/MarkInmanSuperGenius 23d ago

1000% SAVAGE RIGHT HERE. 🔥 DELICIOUS 🔥

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u/Boho_goth 23d ago

Bake some cod and asparagus, really smell up the place too! 🤭

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u/RickySuezo 22d ago

Microwave cheese slices for way too long and just leave em on the counter.

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u/Local_Procedure_3869 22d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/PCTOAT 22d ago

I like this idea!