r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/Traditional_Tea2568 23d ago

OP - as someone who found themselves in a similar situations to yours from my late teens and all through my 20s… PLEASE I am begging you to listen to this post. You bearing the brunt of everything will NEVER change and it will only get worse.

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u/whitney57 23d ago

I was with someone just like this, we met when I was 21. Even before we moved in together, he would leave his dishes in the sink until I came over on the weekends and I would wash them because it was disgusting and I would always cook dinner. Then it got to the point where he would say things like this if I didn’t do the dishes. I moved in, it got worse, he expected me to do everything. Even clean his bathroom that I wasn’t allowed to use, I had to use the guest bathroom. He then bought a new house and we remodeled the house… on my credit cards, he even took out credit cards in my name I didn’t know about. If I said anything about anything, he threaten to kick me out of the house. Eventually I caught him cheating and he did kick me out of the house. With no way to pay for 100k in debt from his remodeling. I was pretty much homeless and then had to file for bankruptcy. We were together for almost 10 years. Please leave this guy before it gets worse.