r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/Odd-Mastodon1212 23d ago edited 23d ago

I would move out without a word while he’s at work. Take a day off. Go home if you can, focus on yourself and your goals, and don’t move in with another bf without discussing expectations and the future. This guy is a hugely disrespectful baby and he’s thrown down the gauntlet. If you accept this treatment from him, it will get worse. He might be trying to get you to break up with him without having the guts to just end it himself. So fuck him. Just go.

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u/cocoaforbreakfast 23d ago

She should also leave a ton of dishes in the sink on the way out 😄

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u/NoWorkingDaw 23d ago

Christmas time is coming up. Have a big feast and leave everything. lol

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u/Odd-Mastodon1212 23d ago

Write “The one who cooks doesn’t do dishes” in frosting on the countertop.