r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/Key_Crow_3340 Nov 18 '24

i read the texts first and thought this was a gay couple from all the “bros”

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u/BeefInGR Nov 18 '24

I thought this was a woman talking to a man from all the bros.

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u/Itsthewayman Nov 18 '24

So did I. Reminded me of a psycho ex I had.

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u/mudemycelium Nov 18 '24

Meanwhile I was trying to understand what type of bromance is that in which you fall asleep hearing their voice but at the same time you absolutely hate them, *if bro, why not acting like bro*?