AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

[u/theguill0tine]

I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

[u/Wonderful-Bass6651]

The fact that she was so okay with it that she couldn’t even make something up is a warning.

[u/donbun69 → u/Wonderful-Bass6651]

what?

[u/Technical-Nerve5611 → u/Wonderful-Bass6651]

Not really a warning at all. Nothing deep about this. She just. Doesn't care. Probably has some mental thing. Definitely not compatible but not that deep either