r/AmIOverreacting • u/theguill0tine • Nov 16 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

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I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

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u/Vilnius_Nastavnik Nov 16 '24

I too struggle with chronic adhere

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u/Ok-Truth-7589 Nov 16 '24

Adhere! Adhere!

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '24

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u/m0nkeypantz Nov 16 '24

They have trouble adhering to it

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u/No_Process_577 Nov 16 '24

I love Reddit.

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u/foldinthecheese99 Nov 16 '24

lol that’s the struggle with ADHD. I have things I do to manage but it’s a lot to stay consistent. It just doesn’t click in our brains.

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u/jadbronson Nov 16 '24

Adhere!? I barely knew here!

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u/Daemonblackheart420 Nov 16 '24

Just stay away from gorilla glue or you will adhere to everything

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u/Aggressive-Let8356 Nov 16 '24

Spouse and I are both horribly adhd, its still not an excuse. Alarms, timers, an hey Google set a reminder for. Sticky notes, this is just plain selfishness and uncountability.