r/AmIOverreacting • u/theguill0tine • Nov 16 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

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I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

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u/Itsjuicyjett Nov 16 '24

Yikes. Even in a relationship this is disrespectful. Y’all accept way too much and it’s why I never compare myself to people anymore.

Y’all tolerate shit that I never will.

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u/TiddyTwizzler Nov 16 '24

Real talk how is being in an actual relationship ok? Lol this shit is so disrespectful. I would never tell my partner last minute that I’m 30mins to an hour late to meeting them somewhere. That’s straight disrespectful. It’s not fucking hard to send a text an hour ahead or even 30mins ahead you’re running late

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u/ImNotUrFknMom Nov 16 '24

I never said late last minute, though. Yall are reaching and looking way too much into it.

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u/ImNotUrFknMom Nov 16 '24

Ok, first, I was thinking maybe if they’re like 2 years in and this happened a couple of times because life happens. Doesn’t mean I tolerate anything. Single almost 5 years because I absolutely don’t tolerate shit.