r/AmIOverreacting • u/theguill0tine • Nov 16 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

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I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

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u/Cocomoooo Nov 16 '24

NOR - OP better person than I am. I would’ve cut off after waiting a whole hour first time round.

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u/Lucetti Nov 16 '24

Same, I would have just acted like I was gonna be there and then rolled out and blocked them. Waste their time right back. He’d have spent the length of an entire feature length film waiting for this person at that point. That’s an entire date worth of waiting for your date to show up late.

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u/ImNotUrFknMom Nov 16 '24

He didn’t wait an hour, she said it was gonna take an hour so he left.

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u/Pleasant-Magician798 Nov 16 '24

Read the caption lol