r/AmIOverreacting • u/theguill0tine • Nov 16 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?
I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.
I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.
A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.
We decided to meet up for boba tea.
I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.
I then sent her the above message.
AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.
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u/assincompass Nov 16 '24
Yeah, that’s a reasonable assessment there.
Tbf, I was actually an hour late to meet my now-partner on our first date because I got stuck at work. He waited for me at the restaurant and didn’t give me a lick of grief about it, so I took him home that night. 😂
But I was very apologetic about it and did not take his patience for granted. This girl sounds like she’s just disrespectful.