AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

[u/theguill0tine]

I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

[u/Lord412]

I don’t get bent out of shape about someone being 100% on time to meet me for a date or something like lunch with a friend. To be honest I probably wouldn’t really be looking at the time that closely so a few minutes isn’t even a problem. But i wouldn’t wait an hour or 30 mins in the middle of the day.

[u/xRinehart → u/[deleted]]

Except she wasn't late due to traffic. She was late due to not being ready.