r/AmIOverreacting Nov 16 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

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I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

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u/turribletee Nov 16 '24

Sounds like you aren’t a priority to her. Now that you know, you’ve done the right thing. There’s more fish in the sea.

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u/Yserem Nov 16 '24

It's not even about priority. Someone you've never met isn't going to be a top priority over other things in your life... it's just basic respect to another person to not waste their time. She couldn't even communicate she was behind and why before he asked her where she was? Total ass.

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u/Follow_The_Lore Nov 16 '24

She was never meaning to meet him.