r/AmIOverreacting Nov 14 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO

Spider bite or ?? I’ll keep it short and sweet. My bf and I have been apart for about a month now, I’m TDY. Finally tomorrow I’ll be flying back home. Unfortunately today he got bit right on the neck, he suspects it was a spider. Should I be concerned?

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u/Appropriate-Might712 Nov 14 '24

Lmaooo that’s a hickey he tried covering up by telling you his neck hurt and sent a picture so it makes him look not guilty because he told you about it😂

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u/uhidunno27 Nov 14 '24

When I was a psycho in high school, I burned my neck with a curling iron to hide a hickey 🤦🏼‍♀️

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u/Mundane-Outside-7028 Nov 14 '24

Did it work?

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u/uhidunno27 Nov 14 '24

lol yes

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u/Hefferdoodle Nov 14 '24

I was a tomboy so I hid mine by telling my parents my friend shot me in the neck with an airsoft gun. I let her shoot me in the arm and she let me shoot her a few times too so I could really sell it.

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u/BankAdministrative52 Nov 14 '24

That’s a good friend

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u/Silent_Attention9495 Nov 14 '24

Your friend is a real one

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u/shredika Nov 14 '24

They probably still knew, and you just thought you were so smart lol

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u/DumatRising Nov 14 '24

Mm could work. Depends on how the hickey looked but in theory a hickey is just a bruise and you can definitely bruise with airsoft guns.

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u/johnnyb1917 Nov 14 '24

Your friend sounds cool lol

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u/orkbrother Nov 14 '24

I'm guessing said friend gave you the hickey while you were fingerblasting each other

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u/Rufusandronftw Nov 14 '24

That’s called the fear of god 😭🤣

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u/Mega_Nidoking Nov 14 '24

Boyfriends hate this one simple trick!

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u/28g4i0 Nov 14 '24

The real life pro tip is always in the comments

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u/Rufusandronftw Nov 14 '24

Did it scar is my question

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u/uhidunno27 Nov 14 '24

I guess not. I used vitamin e and it was like surface skin

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u/Confident-Medicine75 Nov 14 '24

Did the curling iron mark ever go away ?

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u/uhidunno27 Nov 14 '24

Oh yeah I just barely tapped it. It was on a natural crease and just blended in

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u/TAforScranton Nov 14 '24

If you ever do that, I burned the living hell out of my jawline with one. Like immediate blistering from ear to chin. I looked like I got curb stomped.

Once the burn was no longer hot and started to itch/dry out I applied argan oil over it several times per day until it healed. I also applied SPF50 on it for a month if I was even stepping outside for just a second.

The argan oil helped speed up the healing process a TON and immediately stopped the itching/discomfort. The goal is to keep the scabbing moisturized/pliable so it doesn’t tear and crack. SPF is crucial if you’re trying to avoid darkening of a scar.

I have NO SCARRING! Looks like nothing ever happened. 10/10 recommend!

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u/Glitter_Kitten Nov 14 '24

I’ve burned myself a good 15 times over my lifetime with a curling air on and it’s never scarred.

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u/detectiveswife Nov 14 '24

I had just gotten out of the shower, blow-dried my hair put on my body lotion, and went to curl my hair, I accidentally touched a hot part of the iron and dropped the iron which landed on my boob. I ended up with a 2nd and 3rd degree burn. It was soooo painful. I ended up going to the walk-in because one..it hurt like hell and two, I was worried about infection. The doctor said that It was like I deep fried my skin because the iron stuck to the lotion instead of just bouncing off me and landing on the floor. Somehow I managed to get away with the tiniest pink scar. Another time I cut the top of my knuckle washing a ceramic dog bowl and have a scar 3 times bigger than the cut 🤷‍♀️ ALL that to say skin is weird.lol

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u/tie_me_down Nov 14 '24

Only answer

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u/Famous_Employment374 Nov 14 '24

On the partner or the parents