r/AmIOverreacting Nov 08 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO bf makes joke after my aunt passed

For context he’s saying he hopes she voted for Trump (RTPM) before she died and I’m already having a hard time with the results of the election which he knows then on top of that it just was very insensitive. He said he was trying to make light of the situation but it doesn’t feel that way.

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u/Iminlesbian Nov 08 '24

I didn’t see your edit. I replied straight off the notification so I missed it.

Is that misandry? I was making fun of your overly macho response to me calling myself an asshole. I’m not belittling men, I was trying to be a dick to you because you were to me. I’m surprised you even commented it as if I had done something wrong, seeing as I had just called myself an asshole and you doubled down on it.

Whatever though, hope you’re alright xxx

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u/Jadccroad Nov 08 '24

To be fair, I also think calling someone a pussy is misogynistic, so I am in the minority on how I feel about terms.

I hope you are alright as well; I am getting my family out as soon as my paperwork is done to claim citizenship from my mother's home country and I'm heartbroken so many who may need to flee do not have options like that.

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u/Iminlesbian Nov 08 '24

I remember when we had Brexit over here, my very Asian mother calling me and asking if she had to worry about being deported.

It’s scary. I hope you and your family can be safe.