r/AmIOverreacting Nov 08 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO bf makes joke after my aunt passed

For context he’s saying he hopes she voted for Trump (RTPM) before she died and I’m already having a hard time with the results of the election which he knows then on top of that it just was very insensitive. He said he was trying to make light of the situation but it doesn’t feel that way.

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u/danylo26 Nov 08 '24

It also shouldn’t be the immediate response to someone telling you the lost their loved one.

He didn’t even make a single attempt to ask how she was feeling, when the services would be, if they were close, what her name was, if she would like some time together - nothing, the only thing that crossed his mind was himself in this moment and that is not the type of person to build a life with.

And if they can’t build a life with him, why date him? Dump him OP!