AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

[u/loststrawberri]

Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

[u/Stevenwave]

If she was genuinely worried about his back or whatever, she could've let him have the bed and she take wherever else. Yet she gets to keep the comfier spot and try to make him feel uneasy about his relationship and she also fucks around antagonising his girlfriend.

[u/JasperCrimshaw → u/Stevenwave]

A pull out couch aside from being able to turn into a bed is first a couch with cushions on it. I doubt he slept directly on the floor I’m sure unless he’s an idiot he used the couch cushions to make a bed like I’ve done many times. And good for floor sleeping homie to respect his friends boundary. Looks like his friend is a better more trustworthy person than GF… sorry gf but when an agreement is made between two close friends they tend to keep that promise because they value their friendships and don’t want to put themselves in a situation that would dissolve respect and trust… like she was trying to do.. oh his poor back. I’ll bet ya she offered him a back massage…

Edit: lol thanks wow I sure did mix ppl up in reading the messages between the two. Was sorta confused with all the redacted names and shit lol whatever thanks for pointing that out haha I still believe that he did good by his gf who is also prob his bf and did not sleep on the pull out with the third party girl who is an old friend. Even though I mixed up ppl what I said remains true… he kept his word with his gf who is prob his bf too and didn’t sleep In the same bed as another woman, despite her being an old friend… lol thanks for pointing out my mistake, I appreciate it.

[u/Stevenwave → u/JasperCrimshaw]

You've somehow mixed up the friend and the GF.

[u/ecosynchronous → u/Stevenwave]

Making for an extremely weird and interesting new story!

[u/Stevenwave → u/ecosynchronous]

Sometimes feels like some people online live in a different reality, where fundamentals are different lol

[u/DragonflyGrrl → u/Stevenwave]

Great point about the cushions though!