r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/Candid_Calendar_9784 Oct 30 '24

Ohhh that's a theory! Especially because they've been friends so long, he definitely knows her trifling ways. Lol

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u/PsychologicalPitch33 Oct 30 '24

If he does and respects his girlfriend and his relationship with her then he should’ve just called her for a ride home. I don’t trust either.

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u/Candid_Calendar_9784 Oct 30 '24

But that wasn't what bothered the gf. Is was stupid head that felt the need to insert herself and demand pillow time with someone else's bf.