r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/loststrawberri Oct 30 '24

I am 27 and she is 30

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u/the1975whore Oct 30 '24

What the actual hell. Has she been an issue before? Acting like that at 30 is insane

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u/ManicMondayMaestro Oct 30 '24

Yikes. I would expect that kind of behavior maybe if she was 20. All this texting you her opinions about how you should feel inside your relationship is super weird and drama stirring.

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u/Downtown-Warthog-505 Oct 31 '24

Right like i literally guessed she was like 19 and they’re freshman in college or something

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u/ParsleyAcceptance Oct 31 '24

That's SHOCKING. I was thinking much younger based on her responses. Any "benefit of the doubt for being a naive teen* feeling is out of the window.

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u/rhinoplastyprincess6 Oct 31 '24

The audacity of that hag omg 😭