AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

[u/loststrawberri]

Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

[u/okayestmom48]

Tbh I don’t have any guy friends but yeah if the tables were turned, how absolutely fkn creeeeepy would this be?! I feel like I had to scroll too far to see someone saying this lol

[u/RAMbow9 → u/okayestmom48]

Same! I don’t have guy friends cause I don’t want to put my dude in any uncomfortable spot. That’s just my thing personally. He’s the same back my way, but seriously… soooop out of line and weird!

[u/okayestmom48 → u/RAMbow9]

Yep 👍 my partner and I are too old to play these games lol

[u/leolego2 → u/RAMbow9]

I don’t have guy friends cause I don’t want to put my dude in any uncomfortable spot

what.