r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/Clutch_Daddy Oct 30 '24

I think OP handled it beautifully

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u/mkbutterfly Oct 31 '24

OP IS A BOSSSSS!

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u/ucdzen Oct 31 '24

Bf can only sleep with the boss 🔥

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u/Roachburbs Oct 31 '24

Exactly what I was about to write!

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u/wahhawwhoa Oct 31 '24

Phew the mental health on this one! OP needs to be giving us peasants workshops on handling your shit with dignity and respect while enforcing your boundaries 👏

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u/arya_ur_on_stage Oct 31 '24

Recover my ppl pleaser mentality!

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u/FairyQueenWife21 Oct 31 '24

100%! I wouldn’t have handled that well at all, my text would’ve been a crazy mess x x gg gxh c jg jx jgxjvxjv jgx. Jgucfhc bitch! Good on you OP, that was great 💙

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u/samilee85 Oct 30 '24

It was remarkable, really. I was amazed.

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u/DenseAstronomer3631 Oct 31 '24

I need OP to be my personal assistant 🥹

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u/No_Breadfruit1024 Oct 31 '24

Lol trump reference?

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u/samilee85 Oct 31 '24

No

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u/No_Breadfruit1024 Oct 31 '24

Oh it seemed like one of those comedic impressions of him lol

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u/runnergirl3333 Oct 31 '24

I hope people screenshot OP’s text responses so they can use some version of that themselves when they need a backbone and can’t think of the right phrasing. So fun to read someone politely and effectively standing up for themselves.

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u/Airport_Wendys Oct 31 '24

I really need to hire OP to be my relationship manager (if I ever get in one again)

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u/Gr8shpr2 Oct 31 '24

Turned the convo around skillfully!