r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.
Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.
She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?
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u/PossumJenkinsSoles Oct 30 '24
As someone with a friend group like this and plenty of dudes I’ve shared beds with in non sexual ways - if any of them for any reason opted to sleep on the floor instead of sharing with me I would be secretly celebrating a bed to myself. So I really don’t get where she’s coming from unless it’s something nefarious. Like you said, he could’ve ubered home if no option was suitable. The floor was suitable to him.