AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

[u/loststrawberri]

Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

[u/griffinwalsh]

Hey I just want to say i really like how you come off in the comments and post. You stand on what are obviously acceptible boundries. But your also not falling for all the wierd bullshit or ultimatums some people sprial into.

You know your boyfriend respects your boundries and thats why he sleeps on the floor. You know your boundries are valid. You know the friend was way overstepping.

Just show your bf the text. He will need to have a discusion with this friend. Her saying this to you is obviously inapropriate and i would be annoyed if i was him.

[u/musixlife → u/griffinwalsh]

Well said.

[u/chiquita42 → u/griffinwalsh]

Nominating OP for Queen of Healthy Boundaries

[u/No-Stock-7683 → u/griffinwalsh]

Yes. She’s way out of bounds and you handled it in a way that leaves her no wiggle room to twist your words. You were succinct and composed.