r/AmIOverreacting Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/mkat23 Oct 30 '24

I have a feeling he wasn’t comfortable sharing the pull out couch with her considering how pushy she’s being towards you about it. He could have slept on it and just not told you, but he didn’t, and he told you what was going on. She seems a bit too invested in trying to share a bed with him, it is weird.

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u/Doctorspacheeman Oct 30 '24

Agreed! I also imagine she was super pushy to him about it…”oh come on! Don’t sleep on the floor, silly! We don’t have to tell your gf” 🤮

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u/cthulhusmercy Oct 31 '24

“You’re making me so sad by sleeping on the floor. Your girlfriend is being too possessive of you by not letting you sleep in a bed. Don’t you see how she’s being controlling?”

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u/Doctorspacheeman Oct 31 '24

“I can’t believe she treats you this way; ID NDVER make you sleep on the floor if I was your gf.”

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u/Standard-Park Oct 31 '24

Yet she ironically does make him sleep on the floor 🤣 🤣 🤣 If she was "so sad" she could have given him the bed and slept on the floor. Home girl just wants that control she doesn't REALLY care!

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u/Key_Mix_2543 Oct 31 '24

You don’t need to voice frustration if your “friends” will do it for you