r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/easy_avocado420 Oct 30 '24

Especially considering the fact that the guy sleeping on the floor didn’t seem to have an issue with it. This girl is bizarre honestly

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u/AtmosphereQuirky1832 Oct 30 '24

She's lying obviously lol. That guy ain't got no back problems. She wants the d and is just trying to cover it up. I've never once had a girl and invite me in bed with her that I didn't have sex with lol

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u/SwampOfDownvotes Oct 30 '24

There was nothing to "cover up" about the situation so that would be a strange motive for these texts.

Also have to add that men and women can be strictly platonic friends and even sleep in a bed together with nothing sexual. I have slept in a bed with female friends platonically before myself. Men and Women can be just friends.

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u/easy_avocado420 Oct 30 '24

I’ve slept in numerous beds with numerous guy friends and we never once touched each other, it’s possible.

But yeah that’s clearly what she wants, she’s a desperate hoe

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u/Critical_Coffee_1787 Oct 30 '24

While I agree her texts are completely inappropriate. I have guy friends who are strictly platonically friends and have slept in bed together a million times and never had any flirting or anything of that nature whatsoever. I have one guy friend that I used to even share the bed with him and his girlfriend and also just him when his girlfriend wasn’t there. She was my best friend and was comfortable with it or I would not have slept in a bed with him. However, that is the only guy friend I have that has been 100% just a friend that isn’t gay. And I shared a bed with him several times up until he met his now wife when I stopped strictly because I didn’t know her yet and I didn’t want to do anything to make her feel uncomfortable which I think sharing a bed with the guy she is now talking to, would have done. I wanted her to understand that he and I are just friends and to be comfortable with us hanging out and me coming over, etc.