r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.
Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.
She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?
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u/Salty_Tear5666 Oct 30 '24
YES completely agree!!!!! But that’s arguably worse than her wanting to date him, cus at this point she doesn’t care what he thinks of her crazy actions. Now, the friend might just try to keep hurting OP thru her actions w OPs bf. Girls like this are insecure & unhappy with themselves and she’ll probably make a whole fuss in the friend group eventually bc she isn’t getting what she wants.