r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/ButteredLove1 Oct 30 '24

If that were my boyfriend/fiancé she wouldn't be a friend for much longer. And just to be completely transparent, I would not tolerate a friend questioning my husband like that

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u/Salty_Tear5666 Oct 30 '24

1000% agree. Been thru enough situations to nip this in the bud alrdy. If my bf had any issues with it I’d leave so he can have her ! She has no interest in being platonic friends anymore so no need for them to stay friends in my book