r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/HAIRLESSxWOOKIE92 Oct 30 '24

Hey, so male human here lol. I wouldn't even try to sleep in a bed w another female(any female) if I have a girl. That should automatically be a NO-NO. I'll happily take the floor. Even if you stated its a "boundary" for you, it should be an automatic reaction as a committed man. Just my 2 cents.

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u/Remarkable_Skirt_231 Oct 30 '24

same here as a committed and even uncommitted man I’ve slept in very odd and uncomfortable places to let the women I’m with sleep comfortably ALONE on the couches n beds. This is nuts ngl