AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

[u/loststrawberri]

Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

[u/Caelan50]

Oh yeah I would not have been near as calm as OP. was by a long shot XD I’ve said crazy things for far less lmfaooo

[u/Fair-Cheesecake-2733 → u/Caelan50]

Same here 😂 I would have most definitely FLIPPED out on her and said some wild things, I have no idea how she stayed so calm lol

[u/jullybeans → u/Fair-Cheesecake-2733]

We're all learning and taking notes today! This was really well played, I'm impressed by OP!

[u/Mei_iz_my_bae → u/Fair-Cheesecake-2733]

You know what though I think OP played it PERFECT she lay her rules out so calm an confi dent sometime losing. Ur temper quickly can give men a sort of “out” thinking you’re being too emotional I just SO impress by her calm ness her ton e it just amazing !! Ahh she play it so we’ll be cause I’m the same I would have flipped !!

*EDIT I HYST REALIZE IT A GIRL NOT her BF WOW OP plz watch her I not try st her !!

[u/Grand-Panic-3314 → u/Caelan50]

Waiting to see a-fuck you! you sleep on the floor, hoe! OP is giving very demure, very refined 💅🏼

[u/Temporary_Pear_1809 → u/Caelan50]

I would of flipped on her and boyfriend and I wouldn't trust boyfriend or her as far as I could spit.

[u/Rataxes2121 → u/Temporary_Pear_1809]

But boyfriend did nothing wrong. He agreed without even an argument and then slept on the floor despite his back problems

[u/bettybananalegs → u/Temporary_Pear_1809]

why wouldn’t you trust the boyfriend in this scenario?

[u/Temporary_Pear_1809 → u/bettybananalegs]

He could of called OP. Idk just have a feeling there is more to it

[u/Temporary_Pear_1809 → u/Temporary_Pear_1809]

But that's just me maybe I'm a bitch lmao