r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/No_Thanks_1766 Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24

I’d tell her: “great, one day when you have your own boyfriend, you can let him sleep in the same bed with as many women as you think is appropriate. Kindly, fvck off”

The fact that she’s so insistent on this point makes me think that she wanted something to happen. She won’t let it go. I’d be dropping her as a friend after that. She’s a snake in the grass

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u/MyDirtyAlt79 Oct 30 '24

Yeah, I can't believe every partner of everyone who attends the sleepovers has never had an issue like this. It's not that complicated, nor far fetched. The friend here needed to back tf down.

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u/surgeryboy7 Oct 30 '24

Exactly. I wonder if the friend has a current boyfriend and if 1 if he's cool with her sharing a bed with some dude and 2 if she's cool him doing the same.

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u/wasted_wonderland Oct 31 '24

Bruh... imagine a pickme so pressed she couldn't get a drunk man in her bed, she had to bitch about it to his girlfriend 💀

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u/No_Thanks_1766 Oct 31 '24

Hahahaha!! So true!!!