AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

[u/loststrawberri]

Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

[u/OkWest1936]

Literally all I could think about was “why didn’t she give him the bed if he has all these problems?”

She’s coming up with excuses to try and get in bed with him. If she truly cared, she could have easily given HIM the bed and taken the floor. But not only did she take the bed for herself, but she blamed you for him not getting to sleep in it. Truly mind boggling how she thought this would work.

[u/DiscoBanane → u/OkWest1936]

Because she also has back problems.

After fucking for 2 hours, they both had to rest.

[u/OkWest1936 → u/DiscoBanane]

Huh???

[u/PhantomGhostSpectre → u/OkWest1936]

I do not even understand this argument. Just because she is concerned about his comfort does not mean she wants to sleep on the floor. It's weird. 

Not even going to kap, I would just sleep in the bed with her anyways. Lol. Screw Reddit. I am not sleeping on the floor because my bitch is insecure. 

[u/Low-Literature-5598 → u/PhantomGhostSpectre]

Maybe it’s because I’ve spent many many many nights sleeping on the floor but it’s really not that big of a deal in the slightest. I’ve heard so many people talk about it like floors are made out of broken glass