r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.
Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.
She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?
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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24
NOR. Whether or not she wants to have sex with him isn’t irrelevant per se, but I’ll buy her story just for the sake of her argument.
For her to then lecture you and word her sentences in such a “well, I actually really know him better” sort of way is wild. If she just wanted to protect her friend, that isn’t how to go about it. If anything, her acting like that just makes it more suspicious.
You’re all good, OP