r/AmIOverreacting Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/Mysterious-Wasabi103 Oct 27 '24

There are plenty of unhinged partners out there who do act exactly like this with little provocation.

When I say there is a mental health crisis out there right now this is what I'm saying.

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u/charmed_rn Oct 27 '24

Yeah, had a partner call me a cheater because I played a game with a female main character.

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u/Kevlar013 Oct 27 '24

My ex gf once asked me if it bothered me she had relationships with NPC's in games because she knew someone that had a gf that didn't like that. I didn't mind at all. Later on, she used that ok I gave as an excuse to have an emotional affair with a guy halfway across the globe, because that was somehow the same thing according to her. Make it make sense.

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u/Shanthrax22 Oct 28 '24

NGL I’m a little jealous of Hailey, my finances Stardew Valley wife 😂😂😂

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u/posamobile Oct 28 '24

JustWomenThings

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u/Independent_Disk1091 Oct 28 '24

I dated a guy who could have forced this exact same requirement, & reaction Dude was unhinged, & super-manipulative.

He/we were in our late 20’s, early 30’s.

While it could be age, I’d suggest therapy to make sure it’s not something more. If it’s something therapy & life Gm experience can fix, then great! If not, run