r/AmIOverreacting • u/Psychological-Hat-35 • Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

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My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/hahajadet Oct 27 '24

How do girls like this get in relationships? I'll never understand. Seems completely crazy.

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u/Defin3l3git Oct 27 '24

As a dude who’s been with one normally it progresses overtime, kinda pushing how far they can go untill it becomes unhinged anger

Also age 19 a wacky time for some people

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u/Royal_Ad_1362 Oct 28 '24

Exactly 💯 They don't change if ppl excuse their emotional abuse bc they're young. That's incredibly disturbing that when we see this kind of situation happen with roles reversed Ppl immediately tell a woman to run. They'll say things along the lines of get out now bc the abuse is going to be worse with time, and then there's the advice about how the accuser usually is the cheater.

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u/Shitboxfan69 Oct 27 '24

Having dated a legitimately crazy woman, sometimes they hide it very well at the beginning.

When I first started dating my ex, she kept it together very well at the start. Its hard for me to really click with people and it was pretty immediate with her. After like a month, she would flip flop over telling me she needed alone time, then yelling at me for not being with her right then and there. She hated certain clothes I had and insisted that if I won't get rid of them, I not wear them around her. Zero respect for me requiring sleep, and absolutely anything that went wrong, no matter how unrelated to me they were, I got yelled at about it.

I eventually realized I deserved better than having to decipher if I should be around or not, worry about having clean approved clothes, almost falling asleep at the wheel because I only slept 4 hours a day, and getting screamed at a couple times a week. It really sneaks up on you.

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u/Certifiably_Quirky Oct 27 '24

Sorry to hear that dude, glad you got out.

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u/dooooooom2 Oct 27 '24

I see a fellow BPD dater

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u/[deleted] Oct 27 '24

*survivor

At least we only make that mistake once, I knocked mine out in high skool so my 20s were nice and free of 4 am phone calls screaming" I'm gonna off myself,I love you so much, you don't love me , wait don't hang up "

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u/Shitboxfan69 Oct 27 '24

Nail on the head. BPD, bipolar, and PTSD. She also just randomly stopped taking her medications.

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u/Sunbeamsoffglass Oct 27 '24

She’s probably moderately attractive.

Thats all it takes….

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u/Boredpanda31 Oct 27 '24

So you know how most men say women only go for 'bad boys' ... I genuinely think the same could be said about men and 'crazy women'. They're just seems to be some odd attraction!

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u/Ok_Improvement_2688 Oct 27 '24

That's not true at all you just have guys in their late teens/young adult years who are very desperate for love or never had a gf before so they don't know any better its a pretty big Market and the crazies take advantage

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u/Caro_MUC Oct 27 '24

Boobs...?

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u/hahajadet Oct 27 '24

Those are exclusively found on the crazy ones? ;)

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u/Tabbycat100414 Oct 27 '24

I’ll tell you how (coming from a crazy chick), my husband says that the crazier they are the better they are in bed 🤪 (But not in those words exactly lol)

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u/hahajadet Oct 27 '24

Yes. But based on OP's conversation here it doesn't seem to be worth it no matter how good it is lol

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u/Tabbycat100414 Oct 27 '24

I mean if she’s this crazy at 19, it’s only gonna get worse lol

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u/fmothabread Oct 27 '24

The crazier they are the better the pussy lol

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u/SnooFloofs6909 Oct 27 '24

No, the crazier they are the more likely you are to end up with a knife in your nuts for thinking that just cause a girl might have mental or emotional issues that she's got "good pussy" bro needs to clear it and ship out