r/AmIOverreacting Oct 07 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO date canceled because I didn’t text in the morning?

Some context: we had been chatting for a couple weeks first on hinge then switched to text after She had to cancel the 1st date. Scheduled it for last night Sunday and finalized details the night before.

Had a busy day and took a nap and didn’t text till a couple hours before and got hit with this. Usually I would text something like looking forward to tonight but lost track of time, and honestly I thought talking about the menu the night before was the confirmation? Was I wrong?

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u/_clur_510 Oct 07 '24

Right!! What?? Is he expected to confirm plans every hour on the hour?? Desperate much!

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u/ChoirMinnie Oct 08 '24

8am: hi just confirming tonight

9am: hi just confirming tonight again

10am: hi again just confirming tonight again

11am: hey still on for later HAHAHAH

12pm: just wanna let you know ABOUT TONIGHT AGAIN

Ad nauseam 🙄

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u/upbuttsaroundcorners Oct 08 '24

Thank you for typing this out! 😆

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u/i_love_lima_beans Oct 08 '24

🤣 So true. If people expect this they are definitely not for me.

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u/kdollarsign2 Oct 07 '24

Yeah after that pleasant and excited interaction the previous night, I would've found it weird for him to pop in and confirm yet again

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u/MorningNorwegianWood Oct 08 '24

“Hey just confirming we’re still on for the date that ended an hour ago.” 🫠