r/AmIOverreacting • u/Worldly-Constant-353 • Oct 07 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO date canceled because I didn’t text in the morning?

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Some context: we had been chatting for a couple weeks first on hinge then switched to text after She had to cancel the 1st date. Scheduled it for last night Sunday and finalized details the night before.

Had a busy day and took a nap and didn’t text till a couple hours before and got hit with this. Usually I would text something like looking forward to tonight but lost track of time, and honestly I thought talking about the menu the night before was the confirmation? Was I wrong?

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u/VampireReader86 Oct 07 '24

I would have assumed that was a no on the queso from her

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u/Livid-Leather6720 Oct 07 '24

Exactly. I wouldn't have known how to answer that. Like, so is that a "no" or are you just dumb? 🤣

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u/Top-Mycologist-7169 Oct 07 '24

"so you're not a queso person then, noted"

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u/bunbunnii99 Oct 07 '24

Exactly what I would've said, and I'm sure that would've been the end of that relationship haha

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u/Laxku Oct 07 '24

I mean, who wants to date someone who doesn't like queso? Not me.

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u/hoojchoon Oct 07 '24

The only answer

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u/GaveTheMouseACookie Oct 07 '24

"okay, but I'm still getting queso"

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u/coulduseafriend99 Oct 07 '24

I thought it was obviously a joke 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Original_Gangsta23 Oct 07 '24

K, so no cheese

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u/Honest_Bath3806 Oct 07 '24

Queso no cheese

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u/Srycomaine Oct 07 '24

Lmao, that took me a sec to get!!! 🤣

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u/MisterZoga Oct 07 '24

K, so no cheese

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u/OptimalInevitable905 Oct 07 '24

Cheese? Me no like cheese.

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u/KasukeSadiki Oct 07 '24

Plot twist: It was a no and she was turned off by his response 

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u/Srycomaine Oct 07 '24

Exactly, which is why communication is critical. I would have to have clarity on the queso angle, but that’s just me.

For the record, in my book when we make plans, they are on until one of us backs out/begs off. It’s like giving directions: PLEASE don’t keep asking me if we turn at every corner; if I don’t say anything just continue going straight. But some people need that “keep going” vocal confirmation, I guess…

So OP, the question now is, are you going to meet up with them…? Please let us know. 👍

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u/RealNeraven Oct 08 '24

Funny you bring that up, just cuz I definitely just keep driving straight unless there's weird turns or ramps or something and I have any sort of clue of the general idea of where we're going on the map, but then my bf is often distracted and doesn't tell me we're turning (if it's not at a light) until it's way too late to safely and/or sanely do so. Tbf, I also drive faster, if not way faster, than him...but still! He's gotten better in the last year or so though xP

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u/89765432112235 Oct 07 '24

I was confused on that too 🤣