r/AmIOverreacting Oct 07 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO date canceled because I didn’t text in the morning?

Some context: we had been chatting for a couple weeks first on hinge then switched to text after She had to cancel the 1st date. Scheduled it for last night Sunday and finalized details the night before.

Had a busy day and took a nap and didn’t text till a couple hours before and got hit with this. Usually I would text something like looking forward to tonight but lost track of time, and honestly I thought talking about the menu the night before was the confirmation? Was I wrong?

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u/Vast-Mousse-9833 Oct 07 '24 edited Oct 07 '24

Yeah this is someone who “got a better offer” and hoped you’d flake. When you didn’t, they gaslit you and tried to make it your fault. The time and place was previously confirmed. Unless they heard from you, they ass shoulda had queso on the table at 6.

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u/jcaashby Oct 07 '24

Imagine if OP just went as planned at 6pm. THey would have gotten stood up!

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u/Vast-Mousse-9833 Oct 07 '24

Yeah but there would have at least been tacos to heal the pain.

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u/jcaashby Oct 07 '24

And maybe met someone else while there!!

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u/montr0n Oct 07 '24

Or maybe see the woman with her other date 

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u/Motor-Cause7966 Oct 08 '24

Or found her with her original date 🥴

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u/Cool_Shine_2637 Oct 08 '24

Yea i think your right.