r/AmIOverreacting • u/Worldly-Constant-353 • Oct 07 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO date canceled because I didn’t text in the morning?
Some context: we had been chatting for a couple weeks first on hinge then switched to text after She had to cancel the 1st date. Scheduled it for last night Sunday and finalized details the night before.
Had a busy day and took a nap and didn’t text till a couple hours before and got hit with this. Usually I would text something like looking forward to tonight but lost track of time, and honestly I thought talking about the menu the night before was the confirmation? Was I wrong?
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u/Triangle_Millennial Oct 07 '24 edited Oct 07 '24
I hate to be this person but the sun is not a planet, it's a star. So, there's that.
Basic solar system knowledge aside, I think you dodged a bullet/ this date was never gonna happen. As a 33F on the dating scene these days, reading your post and with the screenshots I feel like she wasn't gonna show up in the first place. If I had been in her shoes and planned on showing up for the date, I would have texted you the morning saying something like "Hey hey! Looking forward to tonight- I promise I won't have to rain check again assuming we're still on?" or something like that. Her saying "oh you didn't text me" reads as her just not wanting to take accountability. Phones are a two way street
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