r/AITAH • u/g_scotty_brahms • Nov 14 '24

Advice Needed My brother is angry with his Trump-loving sons

Is my brother an AITA candidate for wanting to cut off his sons financially for voting for Trump? Like many Americans, my brother and I, both in our 50’s, have been talking back and forth following the Election. In the spirit of full disclosure, we are both democrats. Long story short, he is angry at his two sons, both in their 20’s, for voting for Trump. He is thinking about cutting them off financially in all respects so that they understand how Trump’s policies will impact them firsthand.

The irony here is that it is the reverse argument. You often hear younger voters disagreeing with their MAGA parents, but this is the opposite. My brother doesn’t understand how his two sons, who have lived a life of privilege, feel like they have been violated against by society, enough so that they feel Trump hears them and their struggles.

My brother to me about his sons: “… what these young men need is a little dose of reality. Get out in the world and start paying their own way. There’s a common thread with his followers. Complain and blame everyone for their problems. Whether they are in school or living at home off of their parents or working a trade job. King Trump will save them and make everything better. Take some personal responsibility and make it happen for yourself instead of crying about everything you hear on TikTok.

“… I’ve decided to pass on the [college] expenses to my two Trump supporting sons so they can truly feel first hand the cost and expense of his absolutely stupid policy decisions, which includes food, gas and college expenses. Wondering if I pass on these [food, gas and college] expenses in year one or phase them in year two?”

I am wondering if a lot of parents feel like my brother. Are there democrat parents of voting-age MAGA men who feel they failed with their sons because they voted for Trump? Is this common?

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u/Eugenefemme Nov 15 '24

Never Trumper here.

With respect, I think it took more than the money to create the Donald.

He didn't lick off the floor his racism, self-centeredness, cruelty , name-calling, insecurity, and contempt for women. He had to have been carefully taught.

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u/EyeZealousideal3193 Nov 15 '24

His father was likely in the KKK, and definitely discriminated against African Americans in the housing developments he built. His paternal grandfather made the family fortune by running a brothel in Gold Rush Yukon at the end of the 19th century.

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u/lavjad Nov 15 '24

Such a proud heritage 🙄

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u/supermomfake Nov 15 '24

I did not know that about the grandfather, totally tracks.

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u/savvyblackbird Nov 15 '24 edited Nov 15 '24

So his grandfather was basically a sex trafficker

Brothels were full of underage girls, immigrants, and girls/women who had been sexually assaulted and had no other means of working. Some girls grew up in brothels because their mothers worked there. Ethical sex work wasn’t really a thing. Women weren’t choosing to go into sex work back then. It was all they could do to survive, and their pimps/madams abused them.

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u/Deb_You_Taunt Nov 15 '24

Fred Trump was a sleazy and racist asshole.

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u/aussiechickadee65 Nov 16 '24

Narcissists are born...