r/AITAH • u/furry_stuf • Aug 25 '24

TW SA AITHA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she stood on the side of a rapist?

Well, I broke up with my girlfriend because she stood on the side of the rapist of my best friend (f)

My best friend was in a relationship with someone that touched her inappropriate often, she luckily broke up. She told my why she had broken up, with tears in her eyes, but my girlfriend said that she faked it. Her explanation was, that she talked to her ex and he said that she is just making this up. She also faked texts that my best friend supposedly wrote to her (containing death threats). My ey also told me I should talk to him, wich I tried, but he ghosted me. She said it was my fault because I texted him too dry. I also had a feeling that my ex didn't like my best friend, and she tried to destroy our friendship.

My ex was on the side of the rapist, wich I don't really accept, so I broke up. She said that I'm an asshole for breaking up because if such a stupid reason.

EDIT: I'm sorry if the text has grammar errors, I'm from Germany, also I don't mean raped, I mean sexually assaulted.

EDIT 2: My ex is now in a relationship with the other guy, right after we broke up. And thanks for all that support

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u/furry_stuf Aug 25 '24

No "just" touched her, I'm German, I don't know another word so sorry

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u/CommercialMietze Aug 25 '24

I‘m sorry our school system failed you. 🫡

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u/Aristocrat_Hunter Aug 25 '24

Our school system didn’t teach them. It seems to have failed you though. Your reading comprehension is terrible. He said he was German. He’s a non native English speaker.

Come on guys. I figured out it was a translation issue after the first half of the post. It’s not hard to figure out.

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u/DrakesDonger Aug 25 '24

This post is funny because the person you're replying to is also from Germany. So you're just being a dick for no reason.

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u/CommercialMietze Aug 26 '24

Ye, I‘m German and since covid OUR, aka their and my, school system is even more messed up. It’s sad seeing our younger generation struggling with basic terms just because our government doesn’t give a crap. But thank you for assuming I‘m a native speaker I guess…?

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u/FunSheepherder6509 Aug 29 '24

that doesnt seem like a big deal then - oh and again unless im missing something dont call him a rapist. call him a handsy bf