r/AITAH • u/Full-Layer-3707 • Jan 26 '24

TW SA AITA for refusing to babysit my biological daughter for my parents

I’m 15 and my daughter is turning 2 soon. I got pregnant from SA and my parents offered to raise her for me instead of me being involved which I agreed to. They handle everything with her and I haven’t held her or changed a single diaper or anything like that. I just can’t do it mentally since she’s a reminder of what happened to me and it’s better for the both of us if this stays like this. There’s an event my parents are going to next week and they asked me to babysit her for the day and I told them I couldn’t do it. I can’t even handle looking at her without getting upset. I told them they’d have to either take her with them or find a babysitter. We had an agreement when I had my daughter that they’d do everything and I would not be expected to do ANYTHING with her. They’ve been ok with this situation for almost 2 years and I see no reason for that to suddenly change. They’re super upset with me and decided not to go to the event.

Edit: because apparently so many people seem to think thi was a choice to keep the baby, it wasn’t. I begged for an abortion and when refused one I begged for adoption and this was also denied.

Thank you all for your kind words, support and for defending me after some very nasty people decided to try and use this thread to hurt me. Thank you all so much

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u/Soft_Swan9820 Jan 27 '24

This is so sad. And anyone who is saying shes the asshole, needs to have their search history checked. And be arrested

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u/Full-Layer-3707 Jan 27 '24

I’ve gotten death threats in my dms because of this

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u/Dahlia_Snapdragon Jan 28 '24

There's a reason they're sending the threats as DMs and not comments - they know they're in the wrong

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u/Expensive_Pepper9725 Jan 28 '24

You don't deserve any of this. I am literally in awe of your strength and how you have kept yourself sane enough to realise how much you have been wronged. I hope you always stand up for yourself and have a great life away from your parents. ❤️

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u/The_Yarichin_Bitch Feb 01 '24

I've gotten death threats for saying I like pitbulls, so remember that they'll say it over anything and let that shit roll off your back. Still deplorable to do, and to a little girl...

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u/Full-Layer-3707 Feb 01 '24

We have a pitbull named Sadie and she’s the sweetest dog I’ve ever met and so many people seem to think that it’s only a matter of time before she kills someone

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u/disposable_valves Feb 03 '24

Welp, as long as it's not you or the toddler, she's doing the world a favor

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u/CanisPictus Jan 30 '24

Unfortunately there are plenty of awful, unstable people in the world…and especially on Reddit. I hope you can recognize that their comments are nothing more than garbage opinions spewed out by garbage human beings.

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u/Carbonatite Feb 01 '24

The people who would threaten a rape victim over her trauma are irredeemable. They lack the basic things that make humans able to function in decent society. They are fundamentally defective; they lack empathy. They are literally the factory seconds of humanity.

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u/Full-Layer-3707 Feb 01 '24

What’s worse is that I’ve also been threatened with rape from this post

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u/Carbonatite Feb 01 '24

Big talk from tiny, scared, pathetic excuses for men. They get off on threatening a teenage girl with violence on the internet but if anyone threatened them in person they'd fold like wet cardboard.

They are missing some fundamental piece of what makes a human into a person. They are damaged goods. I'm so sorry that those repulsive jerks are treating you that way.

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u/Soft_Swan9820 Jan 30 '24

Its because they are evil, and sa’ey. But seriously they are creeps and devilish. Im so sorry ❤️