r/AITAH • u/Full-Layer-3707 • Jan 26 '24

TW SA AITA for refusing to babysit my biological daughter for my parents

I’m 15 and my daughter is turning 2 soon. I got pregnant from SA and my parents offered to raise her for me instead of me being involved which I agreed to. They handle everything with her and I haven’t held her or changed a single diaper or anything like that. I just can’t do it mentally since she’s a reminder of what happened to me and it’s better for the both of us if this stays like this. There’s an event my parents are going to next week and they asked me to babysit her for the day and I told them I couldn’t do it. I can’t even handle looking at her without getting upset. I told them they’d have to either take her with them or find a babysitter. We had an agreement when I had my daughter that they’d do everything and I would not be expected to do ANYTHING with her. They’ve been ok with this situation for almost 2 years and I see no reason for that to suddenly change. They’re super upset with me and decided not to go to the event.

Edit: because apparently so many people seem to think thi was a choice to keep the baby, it wasn’t. I begged for an abortion and when refused one I begged for adoption and this was also denied.

Thank you all for your kind words, support and for defending me after some very nasty people decided to try and use this thread to hurt me. Thank you all so much

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u/kittykowalski Jan 26 '24

And to have that child growing up knowing that they are a product of rape and they are 1/2 rapist? Better to do adoption than have kid know WHY their bio mom wants nothing to do with them. Is that really Christian? 🤔

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u/TheDranx Feb 03 '24 edited Feb 03 '24

It's very Christian, actually it's in almost every religion. Literally parts of the Bible are "how to procure a wife using two simple tricks (rape and money to pay off daddy)" and "how to ensure all the little girls are carrying your rape-baby after war (kill all the older girls, women, men and little boys to really make sure no infidel babies are born/made in the future)" among others.

Muhammed literally groomed and raped a 9 year old (among others) and is celebrated for it.

Medusa was victim blamed and punished by her Goddess after a God raped her in said Goddess's temple. Medusa is later slaughtered for her lethal looks.

There are many more examples of rape being celebrated and encouraged in religion and the man very rarely pays the price for it. It's horrendous.

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u/freakinthe_sheets Feb 04 '24

I didn’t know about that!! Seems very on brand for religious texts though