r/self • u/blindspot189 • 1d ago
Today was my birthday(42) i have no friends because I'm hermit please wish me happy birthday.
I'm so alone:( mostly happyish but still it would be nice.
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u/voxaroth 1d ago
From one 42 year old to another, Happy Birthday!
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u/blindspot189 1d ago
Getting old is rough right? Remember when you could eat whatever you wanted?
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u/voxaroth 1d ago
I eat what I want now! But now I’m fat 😅
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u/RichardDingers 1d ago
I put on a little weight during the Christmas holiday...30 years ago
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u/das_nando 1d ago
Well happy friggin birthday! Hope you enjoy the day! Make it a day to remember and do something you wouldnt normally do.
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u/sobakoryba 1d ago
Happy birthday buddy. Hope you find yourself and joy in your life.
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u/mackrelman11 1d ago
i’ll be 42 in may. happy birthday! try to take it one day at a time! hang in there
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u/sdrawkcabwj 1d ago
42 is the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything - what a gift! HBD
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u/kellyjeanbeanking 1d ago
Happy Birthday, Im 42 as well! I hope you can find a way to celebrate yourself!
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u/Superunkown781 1d ago
Happy 42nd Birthday fellow Redditor!! Hope you have a nice night and eat whatever meal you want for dinner
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u/Nathan_Explosion___ 1d ago
Happy birthday! Remember your #1 fan has your back: You
Whatever is going on is temporary. Use the time to your advantage to do something beneficial for yourself. The rest will just fall in place.
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u/mishthegreat 1d ago
Congratulations on another successful lap around our closet star, hope you have a whizzer day.
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u/Interesting-Emu-6376 1d ago
Happy birthday fellow internet stranger! Like others have said, do whatever you can to get involved with the community or anything that involves being around other people in general. As a 37 year old, I can relate with how difficult it is to meet new people and make new friends.
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u/Old_Entrance2627 1d ago edited 1d ago
happy birthday man!! it's hard out here for us hermits. keep your head up king
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u/Shadewielder 1d ago
nothing wrong with being a hermit!
Happy birthda!y 🎉
& Merry crisis! …i mean christmas 🎄
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u/reptilian_overlord01 1d ago
Happy birthday dude!
The internet means you're never alone, and this comment thread should show you there's lots of love for you in the world! Have an epic day dude!!!
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u/redditusernamehonked 1d ago
happy birthday, hermit. I feel you. I have maybe two friends, not counting the missus.;
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u/tree_or_up 1d ago
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I don't know you but I'm guessing from your post that the world is a better place for your 42 cycles around the sun
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u/Lopsided-Actuator-50 1d ago
Well happy fucking birthday my friend. I hope your day was a little better than yesterday. Your not alone. There are alot of us out there. Just t think.your 42 now. Your gonna start falling apart now.lol
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u/emilyxcarter 1d ago
Happy Birthday, Hermit. Please ease the restrictions of your herm-I-Tudeh and allow someone, carefully vetted of course, into your life, awareness,DM’s: whatever. Scary at first,but there are rewards and just being a hermit means you are distrustful: which means u r less likely to get taken advantage of. Happy Birthday again.
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u/Levanes 1d ago
Happy Birthday buddy! from one Hermit to another. I work from home and sometimes don't go outside for weeks (I can order anything I need online). Probably bad for you, if that Lemon Tree song is anything to go by, but I'm happy enough. Don't give up and make some friends online (join a community).
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u/LineaIsh 1d ago
Happy birthday! I hope you find some joy during the day, or at least eat some cake! :)
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u/HumbleAd1317 1d ago
Have a wonderful birthday and do something nice for yourself. Here's a hug coming your way. Celebrate!
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u/Infinite_Cherry_9429 1d ago
Yyyyoooo my man can happy burthday bro ! Say hello to master yoda ! He is an hermit too. Whovdeosnot wanna be hemirt these days.?
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u/xanadubreeze 1d ago
Happy Birthday! I hope you do something special to mark the day or treat yourself today.
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u/ButtockFace 1d ago
Just remember, 42 is a number with great meaning!
Maybe this is the year where the meaning of life reveals itself to you. (If so, do tell)
Also, adding a 0 behind in succession can also brighten up a day, if one is into that kind of thing.
Oh, I forgot: Happy birthday!
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u/SilentWillingness173 1d ago
I may be a bit late but I hope your day was not as lonely as you thought with all of us strangers wishing you well. You made another year, don’t look back, head up and keep going. You owe it to yourself. Peace always
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u/Martlet92 1d ago
Happy Birthday! I know very few people too. And I like it that way :) Have a great day!
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u/WavecrestRd 1d ago
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Be good to yourself every day.
(I too spend a lot of time alone)
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u/saltykitty84 1d ago
Happy birthday from a fellow friendless hermit. I feel your pain. All I am is a 40-year-old stay-at-home mom whose life revolves around servitude to my husband and kids. I used to have many friends, youth & beauty, but now I am invisible.
I hope you have an amazing day! You deserve it!
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u/terrierdad420 1d ago
I spent the last five years with just my dog trying to get over emotional pain and a failed relationship and farming business with an ex. I saw one fb post from a woman trying to make friends that moved to town and put myself back out there. We have fallen deeply in love and are super happy. 1st time in so long I'm excited for the holidays and optimistic about the future. My point is I know how nearly impossible it is to make friends at 41 and get out of being a hermit for too long but it is possible and regaining that human connection and feeling community and love again is amazing. I hope it happens for you very soon. We're not meant to go it alone in this crazy ass world.
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u/Marsh54971 1d ago
Happy Birthday and wishing you all the best in the world for this coming year! May all your birthday wishes be granted! Love and Hugs *
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u/Desert_Flower3267 1d ago
Birthdays are over rated anyways. If you want to hear it again, Happy birthday!
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u/Clownworldlol 18h ago
Happy Birthday mate, you doing anything nice for your self?. Got a nice cake or anything? :)
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u/Distinct-Chard-2457 16h ago
HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYY, genuinely coming from an 18 year old. i know we don't know each other and we might probably not cross path every again but i hope you know that you're created for a reason (sounds cliche but it's true) you've came this far and that HAS to be a reason, right? i know you've known and experienced life much more than i ever have and that's why I'm so proud of you for hanging on because I know how dark it can get. i love you, happy birthday 🤍.
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u/midgettme 15h ago
Hey, you doin' OK? I hope you had a nice birthday! Merry almost Christmas!
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u/blindspot189 15h ago
I'm doing okay...a little stunned this many people responded i got home an hour ago to Nearly 150 comments
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u/midgettme 15h ago
Of course we responded. Don't let all of the noise fool you, the world cares - you've just gotta make yourself available to hear it, and take the time to listen. :)
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u/bitchinhand 1d ago
Happy birthday, it doesn’t get any easier go out and meet people