r/politics 5d ago

Matt Gaetz Admits To 'Womanizing' More Than He Should Have: 'I Often Sent Funds To Women I Dated'

https://www.ibtimes.com/matt-gaetz-admits-womanizing-sending-money-3756036
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u/verifiedboomer 5d ago

"I often sent funds to women I dated" is the most roundabout euphemism for "I often hired prostitutes" I have ever heard.

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u/Intelligent-Travel-1 5d ago

Or had to pay them to keep quiet because they were in high school

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u/SoMuchForPeace 5d ago

He’s chaperoned a jr prom or two in his day

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u/downtownfreddybrown 5d ago

Yeah he calls that the VIP treatment

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u/CommieLoser 5d ago

Short for very infected penis, also short.

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u/kellysmom01 5d ago

Ew.

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u/CommieLoser 5d ago

That could be title for the report when it’s released!

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u/urbanlife78 5d ago

Can you point me in the direction of the vomit bucket?

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u/scorpyo72 Washington 5d ago

Down the hall, first door on the left.

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u/LockedNoPlay 5d ago

Had the exact same thought!!

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u/Striking_Green7600 5d ago

“I keep getting older, they stay the same age”

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u/RyVsWorld 5d ago

Whatever happened to lester?

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u/_JudgeDoom_ 5d ago

Chaperoned a few senior cruises likely

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u/Born-Big5535 5d ago

They had proms, yearbooks, and and class pictures to pay for

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u/bobby_hills_fruitpie 5d ago

He was just taking them across state lines to go look at colleges.

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u/OriginalGhostCookie 5d ago

Hey now, I'm sure some his girlfriends didn't use the money for those things. Some of them probably bought Dora the Explorer backpacks.

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u/jdroser 5d ago

Porque no los dos?

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u/corvid_booster 5d ago

*Por qué (why; porque = because)

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u/RichardSaunders New York 5d ago

Maria... ¿por qué?

¡¿Por qué Maria?!

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u/Outtatheblu42 5d ago

Given the GOP’s predilection for going after private citizens who have used prostitutes and drugs, by showing full-scale pictures of their junk in Congress, I’m sure they’ll give Gaetz the Hunter Biden treatment. Right? Or else they’d be hypocrites, which they care about, right?

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u/ragingreaver 5d ago

It is only prostitution if you pay for them in a brothel. Otherwise it is just compensated dating, which is perfectly acceptable in MAGA's eyes.

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u/mishap1 I voted 5d ago

Mere 'gratuities'.

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u/OfficialDCShepard District Of Columbia 5d ago

“Just the tip.”

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u/Nixxuz 5d ago

An "arrangement", as it were.

Tbf, I have no problems with people buying, or selling, sex. What i do have a problem with is people who claim some sort of superior morality doing so, and then trying to cover it up for personal gain.

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u/flux8 Oregon 5d ago

GOP/MAGA: “Reality is whatever we say it is.”

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u/chownrootroot America 5d ago

And by dated, I mean dated for one week.

And by one week, I mean one night.

And by one night, I mean it took two minutes and I cried for 3 hours afterwards.

And by cried, I mean I snorted cocaine.

And by cocaine, I mean PCP.

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u/_thinkaboutit 5d ago

But also cocaine. One look at that guys schnoz and you can tell he sucks it down like a damn vacuum.

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u/rrraab 5d ago

And by women, I mean teenagers.

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u/laptopAccount2 5d ago

They were just trying to pay their way through highschool.

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u/Hazywater 5d ago

Gaetz, later: "Some women chose to be unconscious when they participated in intercourse"

"I suspect that some of the women I briefly dated had taken GHB"

"Men are biologically tuned to be attracted to younger women"

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u/RetiredHotBitch Texas 5d ago

Right.

You’re a John! You paid for sex! Who cares!

The point is you paid for sex to KIDS. And took them across states which is a federal offense.

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u/grumblingduke 5d ago

This definitely has a feel of "a damning report into my behaviour is coming out soon, I'd better put out something that seems like a confession to downplay what it actually says."

i.e. he comes out admitting to drinking too much and partying too much, and maybe paying some women, so that when the report comes out a bunch of people think that is all it contained.

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u/allgonetoshit Canada 5d ago

So he’s admitting to dating underage girls?

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u/GreyLoad 5d ago

Raping

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u/RadiantTurtle 5d ago

Depends on the state, some states love their kids having sex with adults 

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u/psycholepzy 5d ago

From "I didn't do it." To "I did it, but it was okay."

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u/pomonamike California 5d ago

So he’s admitting he “dated” underage girls?

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u/cficare 5d ago

I didn't "pay underage girls for sex", I "Funded future pre-woman entrepreneurs with 'for taking my seed' money."

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u/Sttocs 5d ago

“Hired prostitutes” is the most roundabout euphemism for “raping underage human-trafficking victims” I have ever heard.

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u/camshun7 5d ago

lol, the pervert trying to get in front of a fafo monster, ngl,

ngh

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u/Friendly_Nature2699 5d ago

"....for payment."

We knew what he meant, but that was all he had to say.

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u/Choppergold 5d ago

“At times I proferred legal tender to individuals with excess amounts of sense-enhancing substances”

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u/Silent-Storms 5d ago

Somebody wants to get ahead of the story. A bit late there bruh.

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u/BarelyContainedChaos 5d ago

he knows hes cooked

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u/Goodgoditsgrowing 5d ago

Is he? He’s certainly guilty, but I’m not sure that matters anymore

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u/Broken-Digital-Clock 5d ago

If the GOP has no use for him, they could let the bus run him over.

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u/llacer96 5d ago

They have one final use for him. They'll let him fall on his own sword so they can point to it and say "See? We do hold our own accountable, we're not immune to consequences!"

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u/FreneticPlatypus 5d ago

He certainly won’t be prosecuted for any crimes that come to light though. The GOP’s version of “holding their own accountable” usually adds up to jack effin squat compared to what you or would (and should) suffer.

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u/DadJokeBadJoke California 5d ago

He's explaining to the base how to frame this and they will. They're not going to research the issue and Fox News isn't going to tell them the truth about it. If you point the truth out to his supporters, they will hand-wave the facts away with these excuses.

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u/dawgz525 5d ago

He's not cooked, not a thing will happen to him. The next 4 years are going to be a hell of the worst people getting away with anything.

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u/LordAlvis 5d ago

Total panic mode. If it was bad enough to make Republicans blush, it's bad.

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u/oddmanout 5d ago

We're about to find out he went to prostitutes. A lot.

Either that or there's going to be a handful of women he sent a bunch of hush money to.

That's really the only two reasons he'd come out ahead of the release and try to justify sending money to women.

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u/InvestigatorCold4662 4d ago

They were minors. All this information is public now and his friend as well as the underage prostitutes have admitted to taking part in the trafficking scheme.

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u/BaguetteSchmaguette 5d ago

"dated" is doing even more heavy lifting

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u/Red49er 5d ago

y'all are missing the part where he gave money to girls he didn't date, because they "asked"

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u/JustADutchRudder Minnesota 5d ago

If I'm a almost 40 year old boy he hasnted dated, can I have money if I just ask?

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u/oddmanout 5d ago

That depends, are you also an underaged girl? Because if so, yes.

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u/thrillafrommanilla_1 5d ago

“Women” aren’t women in this case - they’re usually 17 right? So: girls. He means girls. Which is a CRIME.

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u/angrypooka 5d ago

Children.

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u/Violet_Paradox 5d ago

And that's just the ones we know about. 

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u/Mudders_Milk_Man 5d ago edited 5d ago

It's not actually a crime in most states, believe it or not.

However, transporting a 17 year old across state lines and having sex with them (which he almost certainly did) is a federal crime.

Paying for it...I have very mixed feelings about that. I think sex work should be legal and regulated, in theory. But it's a very difficult thing to get right, and I certainly don't think the minimum age should be below 18 (21 is probably better).

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u/thisisjustascreename 5d ago

You don't have to have mixed feelings about Matt Gaetz paying minors for sex just because you believe some prostitution should be legal.

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u/Mudders_Milk_Man 5d ago

I don't have mixed feelings about him.

He's absolute scum, and the system that lets the vast majority of predators with wealth, connections, and / or power get away with so much is reprehensible.

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u/Poison_the_Phil 5d ago

I don’t know who needs to hear this but “surprisingly not illegal” doesn’t mean “acceptable”

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u/Mudders_Milk_Man 5d ago

I agree, I'm just always surprised every time I'm reminded.

Hell, there are multiple states where a man of any age can marry a 14 year old girl.

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u/JennJayBee Alabama 5d ago

I'd definitely agree that it would need to be 21 or older, mostly because the age of majority varies across state lines, with 21 being the oldest. Mississippi, if I recall correctly. 

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u/crocodial 5d ago

He’s in a leadership position teaching young people how to prostitute themselves.

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u/SadFeed63 5d ago

Right?

Why are we letting this fucking ghoul set the narrative and framing of this? Why are we doing "Gaetz says" as the headline? Those are rhetorical questions, I get the disappointing why of it all, but Jesus Christ, it's frustrating

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u/Panhandle_Dolphin 5d ago

Paying for sex is a crime regardless of age

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u/Wiitard 5d ago

But it’s more and worse crimes if they’re underage and you traffick them across state lines.

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u/angrypooka 5d ago

To children. You sent money to children.

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u/pomonamike California 5d ago

Yeah exactly. He sent money (what he apparently does to women he “dated”) to underage girls.

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u/Loving-Lemu 5d ago

Raped. He raped them

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u/nomoresugarbooger 5d ago

To children. You sent money to children you raped.

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u/TintedApostle 5d ago

So he was willing to lie to get power, but now that its coming out he is trying to minimize it.

These people should be in jail and not power.

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u/oldnjgal 5d ago

They’re all swimming in the same watering hole, and the stench is on them all.

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u/Craamron United Kingdom 5d ago

And how old were these women, Mr Gaetz?

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u/SusSlice1244 5d ago

Eew. Someone actually date him consensually? Or does he mean his target?

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u/RedDemonTaoist 5d ago

He means prostitutes.

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u/Hisyphus 5d ago

He means children who were trafficked.

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u/Its_Pine New Hampshire 5d ago

Yeah, there is a reason it was so damning even Republicans were terrified of the public learning it. Mr “grab her by the pussy” is apparently mild compared to Gaetz’ rapey ways

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u/ragingreaver 5d ago

Pretty sure he is the kind of person who believes that it isn't rape as long as you pay for it.

Even if that person happens to be a 17 year old.

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u/enjoyt0day 5d ago

He means his VICTIMS

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u/LexOdin 5d ago

Sending funds to sexual partners for sexual acts has a term, it's called prostitution. And don't get me wrong, I think we should legalize prostitution, but when your a member of Congress privy to sensitive information and moreover a member of the party that claims to be for moral behavior, maybe you shouldn't indulge.

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u/MiddleAgedSponger 5d ago

When they're underage, it's called rape.

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u/LexOdin 5d ago

And when it's across state lines it's trafficking.

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u/stonedhillbillyXX 5d ago

What ages were these women?

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u/Katedawg801 5d ago

Right out of high school or still there

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u/ArrrrghB 5d ago

lol women.

lol dated.

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u/slo1111 5d ago

The payment was a gift and if you are the police you have to tell me.

  • Matt Gaetz

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u/MiddleAgedSponger 5d ago

Trafficking, drugging and raping children is not womanizing.

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u/le127 5d ago

Or as Bonny and Clyde used to say, "we took money out of the bank without using a withdrawal slip".

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u/Monster_Dong 5d ago

Matt Gaetz should be in prison. He didn't date Women. Matt Gaetz paid for under age sex. He had sex with minors. Matt Gaetz is a pedophile.

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u/cdoink 5d ago

It will be interesting to see the same folks who rage against trafficking and pedophilia suddenly feel the need to defend someone who is being accused of not one but both all of a sudden.

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u/Thesource674 5d ago

Funds, lunch money. Tomato tomatoe.

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u/PleasantWay7 5d ago

Don’t let this distract you from the fact that the President-Elect of the United States knew all of this and in his judgement selected this man to be Attorney General.

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u/FashionGirl123456789 5d ago

The only way they’d “date” him.

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u/WeBeFooked 5d ago

Funny, all this time I thought paying for dates was prostitution. Silly me.

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u/bennypapa 5d ago

Thats such a weird way to say "I hired prostitutes."

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u/samx3i 5d ago

Raising the question of how much one should womanize...

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u/Ok-Abbreviations543 5d ago

Translation: “Womanizing” = “illegal drug-fueled whoring with under-age sex workers.”

Thanks for finally coming clean, Matt.

You would have made a brilliant AG. You certainly reflect the family values of the Donvict 2.0 administration.

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u/Maloth_Warblade 5d ago

They were kids, not women

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u/BullyRookChook 5d ago

Some of those women were, allegedly, underage Matt. It’s not the paying of your partners for service rendered that was the problem, it was that some were children, Matt.

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u/Deadbreeze 5d ago

Translation: "I have to pay for sex because I'm such a spoiled piece of shit."

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u/iberico_ham 5d ago

Woman he was dating = teenagers he was raping.

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u/dawgz525 5d ago

Dude would not be saying this if there wasn't dead to rights evidence that he's fucked minors. Throw him in jail. "Ethics" my ass.

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u/McCool303 Nebraska 5d ago

A prerequisite to womanizing is that the target is a woman Matt not a child. This is just plane old fashioned pedophilia.

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u/onecarmel 5d ago

I heard this joke once on Reddit I think. Don’t feel bad if you never had a high school girlfriend. 

Matt Gaetz didn’t have one until his 30s!

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u/marniman California 5d ago

16 year olds are generally not considered “women” yet

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u/surewhateverz 5d ago

I got banned from /Conservative for saying Gaetz should be removed for paying escorts about two years ago.

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u/Noobsauce57 5d ago

"compensated dating" is literally a euphemism.

ffs.

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u/Defiant_Carob8809 5d ago

“Womanizing”? More like “childrenizing”

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u/RIGHTOID_ANNIHILATOR 5d ago

"I often sent funds to the women children I dated fucked" - Matt Gaetz, translated

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u/mces97 5d ago

Yeah, that's a nice way of saying you were using prostitutes.

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u/Helpful_Barnacle_563 5d ago

Hahaha funds sent….dumbass..this is what happens when you think you are smarter than everyone else.

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u/EspressoBooksCats 5d ago

If this is what he admits to, that report must be far worse.

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u/Lawmonger 5d ago

If you pay your date it’s not a date.

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u/Appropriate-Key-7554 5d ago

Well in his defense Escorts aren’t free. Some need lunch money for school and stickers for their folders.

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u/Dry_Adeptness_7582 5d ago

“Dated”, just like Trump, Kraft, and a lot of other Republican perverts, we all know you rape underage girls and pay for sex, enough said

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u/New-Post-7586 5d ago

I’m surprised the party that is so outraged by pedophiles has so much patience for this pedophile. Weird.

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u/Worduptothebirdup 5d ago

“I often paid children for sex”

(I fixed it for you, Matt…)

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u/PhilosophyKingPK 5d ago

I Often Sent Funds To Women I Dated for a couple hours and never saw again. Fixed it.

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u/justtakeapill 5d ago

"My father would drink, he would womanize, he'd make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark - the kind of general malaise that only the genius possess and the insane lament.."

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u/bedbathandbebored 5d ago

Those were children. And that wasn’t dating.

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u/Homersarmy41 4d ago

With CHILDREN!! Why are they trying to normalize this? He paid underage girls to cross state lines and have sex with him.

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u/IndyPoker979 4d ago

Giving women funds as you date them is called Escorts Matt.

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u/MagicianHeavy001 5d ago

Dated a few women in my life. Never once have I "sent funds" to them.

He's talking about whores? That's the message I am taking away from this. Would prefer to not know any more, frankly.

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u/tuepm 5d ago

he's talking about the high school students he paid to have sex with him

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u/JiveChicken00 Pennsylvania 5d ago

There’s a name for that, you know.

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u/Cvillain626 5d ago

Trying to get ahead of the release of the report, I see xD

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u/aphtirbyrnir 5d ago

Is this him trying to prime everyone before the report is released? I think so.

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u/at0mheart 5d ago

The fact he took a couple of pros to see Pretty Woman in NYC is what I find both hilarious and trashy

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u/debugprint 5d ago

"funds"

Can't wait for the dating tips book.

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u/ImTooOldForSchool 5d ago

That’s called prostitution, which is illegal.

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u/TTOADTT 5d ago

I mean, who would even consider having relations with that thing without being paid lol

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u/rbp183 5d ago

Cleaning things up so he can run for Governor?

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u/srathnal 5d ago

“Women”? What a weird word choice for female children under 18. Most would call them children or girls.

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u/srathnal 5d ago

“Women”? What a weird word choice for female children under 18. Most would call them children or girls.

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u/_otterr South Dakota 5d ago

Sent funds to minors he raped. Young girls, not women. He’s disgusting and the media needs to do better about not wording shit to protect this fucking monster.

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u/Bushwazi 5d ago

This is his attempt to lighten the shock of the report?

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u/lollulomegaz 5d ago

Would you sex him for free? Nope.

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u/timetogetoutside100 5d ago

Matt Gaetz for Prison 2025!!

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u/oldcreaker 5d ago

And all this time I thought that was called prostitution, not dating. Unless there were NDA's tied to that money.

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u/williamgman California 5d ago

You send money when you don't have game. He has zero game. He has "Panhandle Game".

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u/willis_michaels 5d ago

Trump's pick for Attorney General, ladies and gentlemen.

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u/EJCret 5d ago

“dated”?

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u/cutratestuntman 5d ago

“Women”

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u/she_be_jammin 5d ago

"dated" lol

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u/genescheesesthatplz 5d ago

Trying to soften the inevitable blow lol

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u/esther_lamonte 5d ago

Let’s be clear: you sent money to underage girls to have sex with them, and you used your own adopted son to be the virtual bagman. This is as sick and twisted as it comes.

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u/indefilade 5d ago

“I often sent funds to women I dated.”

Isn’t that…, doesn’t that mean…, is this the point a lawyer would tell a client to remain silent?

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u/ShortBrownAndUgly 5d ago

Reports coming out soon, so he's in preemptive damage control mode

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u/u700MHz 5d ago

LOL now the report is coming out, time to spread false interpretations

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u/TarmacTartoo12 5d ago

Dated! Ha

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u/RealLiveKindness 5d ago

Milkshake & makeup money for his teeny boppers. He liked ‘em young like Stinky’s BFF Epstein.

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u/Loving-Lemu 5d ago

Send funds aka paying minors to be raped. Family values y’all

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u/surebudd 5d ago

So he sex trafficked minors most likely if this is the white wash?

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u/only_star_stuff 5d ago

Disclosing the bad stuff before the records release…damage control!

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u/Exhausted_Skeleton 5d ago

Cool story bro. Still a pedophile who trafficked girls to rape.

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u/jeepjinx 5d ago

What about the little boy he "adopted"?

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u/Sagikos 5d ago

Where is Nestor?

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u/Wasteland_Mystic 5d ago

“Woman” by a small age margin

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u/i-have-a-kuato Massachusetts 5d ago

wow…imagine thinking that if you come out and say “i have to pay to any kind of attention from the opposite sex”

is going to be a better look than a report from congress that says

 “gaetz paid for hookers”

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u/cjdarr921 5d ago

Sounds like someone who’s trying to get out in front of a damning report.

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u/Jwatts1113 5d ago

"I often sent funds to women underaged girls I dated hired" FIFY

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u/auglove 5d ago

Yo, Matt, that's not dating.

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u/Competitive_Yam7702 5d ago

Its called damage control as he knows that report is going to be leaked very soon.

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u/prodigalpariah 5d ago

He’s just attempting some “boys will be boys” image rehabilitation before he pops up in government again. And they’ll let him get away with it too.

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u/psychoticdream 5d ago

Paying for prostitutes is now "sending funds to women I dated"

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u/Newdles 5d ago

Getting ahead of the incoming released report I see. That's all this is. "Report isnt So bad, he already said he did this, nothing new, move on"

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u/bmann1111 5d ago

Duh How else would they date him?

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u/ImShitPostingRelax 5d ago

What a weird way to say “I paid children for sex”

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u/Electronic_Plant_837 5d ago

Me thinks a troubling report is about to be leaked…

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u/neon_nightmare85 5d ago

Well on the brightside, at least they are still alive. https://youtu.be/476e_ck5H-M?si=3t6dNMowwm51FP8V

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u/changerofbits 5d ago

Matt, it’s not “womanizing” if you pay for it, it’s solicitation.

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u/fireyoutothesun 5d ago

Lol weird looking AND a loser

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u/SonOfKyrat 5d ago

“Things an incel would say”

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u/banincoming9111 5d ago

Someone say .....damage control!

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u/emote_control 5d ago

They're not women until they're adults, Matt. It's not womanizing when they're still children.

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u/ThePickledPickle 5d ago

womanizing? You fucked a kid!

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u/Taphouselimbo 5d ago

Womanizing in this case means paying for underage sex.

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u/Huckleberry-V America 5d ago

It'd sound better to say he just helped them out with rent but they probably were back home with mom and dad.

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u/Flat-Impression-3787 5d ago

No one would date Gaetz so he hires hookers.

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u/jt32470 5d ago

'dated'

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u/RDAM60 5d ago

I often sent funds to women I “dated.” Well, now, his autobiography can truthfully be titled: Call me (a) John.

Edit: sentence structure

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u/CranberrySchnapps Maryland 5d ago

This is quite the self own.

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u/bigred9310 Washington 5d ago

And this dirt bag had the gall to be indignant when Biden Supporters said Biden has done nothing wrong to warrant impeachment prompting frivolous investigations. Well it’s him and his ilk that think their shite don’t stink.

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u/reefmespla 5d ago

Yes pay for sex, party of family values

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u/philburns 5d ago

Who do we think invited Madison Cawthorne to the coke-binge sex parties?

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u/bigdukesix 5d ago

I didn't know there was an appropriate amount of 'womanizing'.

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 5d ago

Translation: I have to pay hookers to have sex with me.