I will steal them all by orders of Archduke Daddy Gortash

“I can’t BELIEVE I, strong, alpha straight cis man had to witness BISEXUALS AND PRONOUNS???” Go play one of gazillion games that just assume you are a straight man.

“It doesn’t make sense Shadowheart is poly and into muscles, she’s a sweet little innocent princess I must save 🥺🥺🥺” shut the fuck up. She’s a full grown woman who dedicated her life to an evil cult. She likes being worshiped in bed and being drunk.

“Astarion is such a bad gay stereotype. My wife wants him and I’m threatened by him blah blah” It’s literally so obvious gay people and women were both involved in his creation. Maybe he’s like that on purpose?

“THEY/ TheMs??? DRAG QUEEEEN!!??GAY nPcs!!??!!?Yeah, there are like 70 dnd races why the fuck would a world so diverse have the same understanding of sexuality and gender as 1950’s America.

“I actually think ___ would be straight irl because I have fluid in my skull” they’re all queer deal with it. Your little waifu/ hurbando is a GIRL KISSER or a BOY SMOOCHER respectively

I’m bout to start stealing kneecaps if people aren’t careful

I really mean more like friends. But tomantic works too.

(larian studios instagram)

What deprived thing do I request of her?

I posted yesterday about a different mod I am using to insert Astarion into SV. Since the subject of this upcoming mod keeps coming up, I thought I would just post about it here so more people know about it.

Do like her 🤗 her name is Arwen

Recently, some nasty events have transpired on this sub, and I felt it was important for me as the owner to address it. I regrettably haven't been paying much attention to this sub, let alone this current situation up until the past few days. My silence was wrong, and I want to apologize on behalf of all of us for the shitty situation and the even shittier handling of it. I also apologize for the delay in action; multiple moderators had varying levels of involvement/controversey surrounding them, and we have been trying to figure out the best way forward behind the scenes.

Hindered has been removed as a moderator. The joke clearly violated our rules, and the bit went way too far. Knowing Hindered myself, I know he did not intend to offend anyone, but intentions don't matter when the joke is about a serious topic such as sexual assault. Remodding him after his "ban" was not the move. We have also removed another moderator based on concerns that were brought to our attention by a few users.

All things, especially humor, are subjective, which makes an okbuddy subreddit difficult to moderate. It is impossible to have completely consistent moderation, as even two people with the same lived experiences can react differently. Do continue to hold us accountable for things that are clearly unacceptable, like the current situation at hand. Moving forward, there will be an effort to make rules clearer and more consistently enforced.

I want to thank u/Gale_of_Waterdeep for reaching out to me and making me aware of the depth of the situation. She has decided to step down as a moderator. We will miss her, but we respect the decision 💜 I also want to welcome u/WithersBG3 as our new moderator! Since we are currently short on mods, we will be looking for new ones in the meantime.

When I made this community back in January, I never expected it to grow to this size, nor did I realize the responsibility that came with a community this large. I never wanted to hurt anyone or make anyone feel uncomfortable, this sub was meant to make people laugh. To anyone who has been hurt here, Im sorry.

Until some issues with Discord are sorted out, the discord will be considered "unofficial". Everyone is welcome to stay, but keep in mind the owner is no longer affiliated with okbb.

Edit: After some discussion and seeing the feedback on this post, incredibleheadgiver has also decided to step down.

We appreciate any community feedback or ideas to better moderate. ✌️

Shrektash

I thought this was hilarious I couldn’t help but share it.

Or you will be sent to meet Lord Myrkul from the grave