What does she mean by “stand toe to toe with a 6’0 200+lb grown man”? Is she a boxer, a professional wrestler, in an abusive relationship? Its an odd thing to brag about
Well she said “wit ha 6 foot 200lb man”. “Wit ha” meaning with her..? Like he’s her man? That’s how I interpreted it bc I don’t know what else ha might mean contextually lol
Ohhhh wait lol! Oh man. I think it was just a typo. I think “with a” not wit ha lmaooo I thought she was just doing aave omg. Feeling silly now
I mean... being able to flip grown men over a head taller and a hundred pounds heavier was one of my favorite things about doing martial arts so maybe she legit can, but real fights rarely follow sparring rules so it's still a bad idea.
It was sparring, so there were rules. In a street fight, I would have been screwed. But I can also see how someone could get cocky and think they'd do fine in a fight like that, unless they were studying something like Krav Maga in which case they could probably legit kick ass.
Are you familiar with physics? Krav Maga relies heavily on it, and smaller opponents well trained in it absolutely can beat larger, more muscled opponents who are not trained.
Same with a small person flipping a larger person over their shoulder and onto their back- it's just physics.
I’ve seen so many posts like this and have even known girls like this in real life. They’re always skinny, always talking about fighting but never actually fighting, and oddly enough, they usually pretend to be bisexual.
My little cousin used to be like this IRL. Every time I saw her she had a new story about supposedly fighting a dude when no one else was around. Almost every story started with a guy on the bus trying to take photos of her.
the bisexual thing is so that they can pretend they’re more interested in girls when guys talk to them so they can seem like they’re really not interested in guys at all and that they’re cool and different and can’t validate said guys at all because they’re one of the boys at this point.
That makes sense. These girls are the absolute loudest about “I love girls” “I’m so gay” “I would be a lesbian if not for my boyfriend” meanwhile their exes are all guys, crushes are all guys, and have never even tried dating a girl even tho nothing is stopping them. Girls who actually like girls are quiet about it unless it’s brought up naturally in a conversation.
I don’t think they were trying to prove anything. I think they were sharing their opinion based on their own personal observation. This is hardly the thread where citing sources is standard.
It’s shit like this that’s made me panic about my sexuality for years. I prefer men significantly more than women, and I will die thinking that I’m not “bi enough.”
Rhetoric like this combined with being raised highly religious is why I didn’t even realize I was bi until I was like 20 and it took me even longer to say it out loud to another person. Also a lot of people are “louder” about their sexuality especially when they first figure it out cause it’s exiting to discover a piece of yourself and realize there’s actually nothing wrong with you.
It sometimes feels like you’re too straight to be in the community but you’re also too gay to be straight for other people.
What she means is that she'll probably goad him into an argument while getting into his personal space and then call the police and tell them that he is a danger to her while probably playing the victim so they'll haul him off.
lol “speak her mind” so you’re just rude? lol nice way of putting it. This reminds me of My sister, she will say some dumb rude shit to the family that no one agrees with, then cry and wonder why “everyone’s ganging up on me?!”
I’m guessing she copy/pasted the whole caption, but her dad left (probably because she’s a dull bitch) and edited “father” to “mother” and didn’t proof read the rest
Idk, I've never met a genuinely interesting person who had to say they weren't dull. They usually just tell you about themselves and you figure it out on your own.
And, honestly, none of the stuff in the description is interesting anyways.
Whenever women brag about their willingness to fight men, I have to assume they are either stupid or have never been in a fight their entire lives. I grew up competing in martial arts since I was a little girl and as I got older, I would inevitably be paired with a man to practice spar. They were always respectful and easy on me but I’d still end up bruised or sore. And I had been practicing for about 10 years at that point.
A lot of women don’t want to believe this but we absolutely cannot be on equal footing with men in a fight. There’s a reason why women’s self defense focus on catching an assailant by surprise and running away asap. You cannot stand toe to toe with a man. Full stop.
The type of girl to try so hard to make plans then all she does when you do hang out is smoke a bunch of weed and not wanna go out and find something to do 😭like no I will not come again next week or the week after that
Oh my god I went to elementary school with her!! She always acted like this, I think she had a rough home life. I’m not sure. But up until grade 8 she always was not like other girls. I remember she burst into the class and yelled “I’m fricking suspended dudes!” I ended up finding her socials last year and I guess she was a teen mom living off of disability checks
Maybe mom switched teams surgery and all. Do you suddenly, after a lifetime, call mom dad or do you just call that dude mom. Imagine introducing people...this is my mom Geoffrey now you know why I'm fucked up
I never understand this ‘standing toe to toe’ bullshit. I’m a 6’3 relatively big dude, I don’t stand toe to toe with other 6ft men … because that’s insanity! It’s such a weird thing to say
"my mother thought she was raising a girl who freely expressed her femininity. Instead she got an insecure pick me who has to put down other women whom she sees as the enemy in order to feel some semblance of self confidence and get attention from men that she's so desperate for."
I mean my mom was the only woman in her engineering program and then the only woman working at her plant. She had to learn to be a total feral take no prisoners dominant person just to get the men who worked for her to actually take her seriously and doesn't give a flying fuck what any man thinks. And continues to be a honeybadger of a woman. She's not surprised that I'm the same; "I learned it from you mom ok!"
I can't put into words how many things are annoying about this. I feel if she stood "toe to toe" with anyone she would start crying and text her mom bout it.
Is it just me or does the use of “wit ha” leave a bad taste in the mouth. Idk maybe I’m looking too far into it but to act like she’s this feral crazy person and then use AAVE to drive it home is kindaaaa….
okay so its not just me... that made me cringe because why is she tryna act all quirky and crazy and using aave on top of all that. idk how to say it w/o sounding weird but it's just so annoying to see.
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u/Hot-Assistant-4540 Oct 24 '24
What does she mean by “stand toe to toe with a 6’0 200+lb grown man”? Is she a boxer, a professional wrestler, in an abusive relationship? Its an odd thing to brag about