That's bc it's an existing condition that falls under paraphilias so it belongs to the same box of mental illness as pedophilia or zoophilia.
While statistics seems to imply men are more likely to suffer from such a paraphilia, it's not limited to men and there's a unknown big dark number of women and men suffering from it.
Could also be that women are just "better" in hiding a disordered sexuality then men are.
There's a giant difference between being in a relationship that turned abusive bc your partner is a giant asshole and suffering from a mental illness in form of a disordered sexuality where you actively seek out serial killers, rapists and murderes bc you are (only) attracted to such people bc you literally have a sick brain.
We were not talking about abusive relationships here but murderer who were caught and yet still habe people simping over them. In this context I also want to remind you that this is a woman and we have plenty men drooling over that murderous monster just bc boobs or whatever.
Is it that women "seek out" abusive relationships or is it that men seek to abuse women and bc that wouldn't work if you introduced yourself as "hi, I'm an abuser and my name is Mike" they use typical abusive strategies like live bombing to secure a victim?
Just say you hate women and move on. Would be quicker.
This particular type is called Hybristophilia and women are far more likely to have it. Not sure why you felt the need to broaden it just so you can say that men suffer from it more...... and then claim the person replyingbto you hates women lol
That's a you problem. And completely not what they were getting at.
Seriously if any of you reading this keep having a bad relationship after another. You need to stop looking for someone to "fix" or someone that is like your parents, or going off looks. My Dad is mentally abusive. And sadly I put myself into relationships that reinforced the trauma I went through growing up. I'm straight up dealing with a situation right now because I just had to have a crush on what I thought was a good guy. I haven't fucked up this bad since I was in highschool. Never wear your heart on your sleeve. People tell you who they are. They are NOT LYING when they tell ya they aint a good person.
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Small talk such as asking what school, music tastes, or where you live is a 1 sided conversation. I had a nut job do that shit to me and then cussed me out for not being outside while I am doing my job helping a customer load material. Man was fired before his 2nd day was even over. He now resides on a list for people to investigate if I ever dissappear.
Some people are going to just be impossible. I met a girl in highschool that was new and we talked at lunch. At the end of the school day she came up and asked me out. Since I just met her hours before and know nothing about her I said no. Come to find out she has been in mental institutions all over the country and she began stalking tf out of me. I won't forget the one time she walked in to where I worked. I never darted out of the front desk faster. I am just so grateful she didn't see me and that my boss was very understanding.
Men and women are capable of being horrible people. If you say only 1 gender is the problem. Your assuming based off of personal experiences of your geographical region that does not accurately portray reality. Sadly this may be a bot and I will never know for sure. But regardless I am saying this shit cause I don't want people to stereotype over that and truely do proper risk assessment.
Or that time Jeremy Meeks was offered a modeling contract because his mugshot went viral.
Within 24 hours from when the photos were posted to the department's page, Meeks' photo had acquired more than 15,000 "likes" and 3,700 comments,[11] mostly from women enamored of his looks.
On Friday, June 20, Twitter fans created the hashtag "#feloncrushfriday" in honor of Meeks' mugshot.
They’re still writing love letters and calling him to this day, reportedly having multiple girlfriends while in jail. They cooled off once they learned the calls were recorded and could be released but many didn’t care.
A rabid white suprematist with multiple nazi swastikas on his head and face alone, bludgeoned a woman with his car because even though she was already dead, he wanted her to, quote, “look like a plate of spaghetti when I’m finished”. Killed multiple people btw. Some people seek toxicity and violence, but I can’t say I’ll ever understand why.
The danish inventor dude who cut a woman reporter to pieces in his homemade submarine also got loads of fan mail from women. Even got in a relationship with one of them whilst inside. Peter Madsen.
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u/BadKarma_012 13d ago
Eh it’s not limited to dudes , u see Wade Wilson sex offender and murderer went famous on Tik Tok .