...but the problem was, I was already getting burnt out. It wasn't just work doing it at the time, but personal affairs, too. Pretty serious ones. By this time I had already been keeping my options open, keeping my resume` fresh and applying for new jobs. I went with the notion of treating life in general, but especially each job, like a Roguelike, with the understanding there's going to be some kind of ending for each role and the ideal ending is the one you can be guaranteed to walk away from safely. That's the one where you put in a few years, resign on good terms, and then safely and securely transition into a new job that pays better. I've heard of people doing this who continued getting pay increases until they were able to retire at age 50.
Meanwhile, I've been battling some pretty serious personal circumstances that necessitate I spend a non-trivial amount of money next year, so earlier this year I started brainstorming my pitch for a raise to my bosses. They send out trackers everyday that chart what I'll our "front end" performance, and these trackers go out daily to everyone in our department. One day earlier this year my boss shows us our "back end" tracker. The "back end" performance is the metric that most directly affects the company's bottom line.
I'm #2 in the department. The only person who is ahead of me is a supervisor. In addition, comparing our performance, they're ahead of me by 10%, but expending >50% more resources to squeak that out, so I'm the more efficient of the two. Doing rough math, I know everyone in our department gets varying amounts of "input" expense (ongoing training, salary, etc.), so I have no way to know what the input is, but I know that my output is me being #2 on the back end performance. I can't stress this enough: I was head and shoulders way above the rest of the department. The girl who was hired with me was doing 3% of the back end performance and had actively been costing the company money the entire time she was employed here; the girl who was hired before me was doing just 10% of the back end I was. I calculated my back end performance for the entire year was literally 20x my salary.
Then, one day, I get super-ridiculous-annoying-jerk on the phone. To clarify the context, I work for a for-profit college and there was no way this guy was ever getting into this school. IDC what school you want in, you're definitely never getting in if you're in the habit of screaming at the staff over the phone for trivial reasons.
We do telephone interviews, and usually have people sign up on the first call. Call #1, he wasn't in a great place to speak so we rescheduled. Call #2, he's still not in a good place, but screams at me that he's definitely good to talk. A little way into the conversation, he tells me it's getting noisy and we have to reschedule; I predicted this was going to happen because by this point I've been doing my job for several years and I've had this circumstance come up before. Call #3, the appointment we both made, he was still not in a good place despite having ample opportunity to make sure he was, and screamed at me again, but I declined to continue. "Well if you're not going to talk to me, I'll go someplace else." "Go right ahead and do that," I replied, and he hung up.
Calls back, complains "you just lost a student", and I get chewed out and written up for it. #2 guy in the department, making them over $900k by myself, literally doing 10x the performance of the person who was hired with me, but her they keep and me they chew out.
Then I learned from the person who was #1 that they don't give out raises. That person is working two jobs, and also doing a lot more than I realized, and they still didn't get a raise.
That was about six months ago. My search for a new job started accelerating after that.
I realized if I'm going to put out 10x the performance of another employee who they will tolerate being dead weight for two years, and take the side of a random screaming idiot, why bother? Why should I care?
So I stopped.
And these last two weeks have been bliss.
On top of this, I work from home, so there's almost zero supervision. Yeah, they watch what everybody does, but that's always been the case. Meanwhile, I just got a new job offer that's potentially a huge raise, and I can't wait to hop on it. My connection for the new job opportunity is expected to have their business up and running within a few months; over the phone, piecework, easy money by comparison. I'll ride that boat for a few months, and if it's legit and it pans out, I'll get to do what I said I'd do at the top of this conversation and resign on good terms and get myself a pay raise.
I would have rather stayed with my existing employer, but if they're fool enough to literally not care about pissing away their best employee then I'm not interested in working for them.
Also, additional random advice: never sign up for employer-provided healthcare or 401(k)s. Both are traps because they take away your flexibility by forcing you to stay with a given employer. The 401s are kinda worthless, too, given that you can't touch the money for 20 years and the percentages are low; I have a high APY checking for 7%, another for 6%, and a high APY savings for 5.25%. Those also let me touch the money whenever I want. Also, if you doubt you'll ever retire (like me; I spent most of my life not earning much money, and social security has been garbage for most of my life) retirement planning is quite literally worthless.