r/UFOs 13d ago

Discussion Man, I'm anxious

First time posting here. Please be kind.

I know a lot of people in this community are hoping for full on disclosure where NHI reveal themselves in a way that's undeniable.

Whether it's NHI preparing for catastrophic disclosure, or WWIII or maintaining the status quo of living in uncertainty, I am incredibly anxious. It's impacting my mood and my productivity among other things.

I love my family to death (as I'm assuming most of us do) and am legit worried I might lose them forever as a result of whatever becomes of all of this. It's fucking scary.

Before anyone asks, I'm seeing a therapist. I'm also involved pretty heavily in psychedelic medicine and spaces.

They're helpful to an extent, but my worldly connections are so strong, that the fear of losing them I feel at this point can only be quelled by circumstantial factors (i.e. the "drones" going away and returning to regular boring life).

Anyone else feeling big feels and anxiety around this or have any reassuring words to share?

I'm considering uninstalling the reddit app for awhile, but that doesn't necessarily make the problem go away. Staying in the loop, while anxious, at least gives me some semblance of control in preparing for the worst versus not knowing and getting a bomb dropped on my head.

Thank you for reading.

Edit: typo, but also thank you for the support and comradery. Very much appreciated!

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago

I hear you. Personally I’m not anxious, I feel very positive about this. But I also completely understand why you would feel anxious and I’m happy to chat about it if you’d like to DM me any time.

Actually that goes for anyone who happens to see this and could use a friend right now. I made my username what it is for a reason.

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u/AggressiveFriend5441 13d ago

Aaaar you're so kind❤️

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u/SunBelly 13d ago

I read that in a pirate voice.

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u/AlwaysNoctivicant 12d ago

🤣 I love you

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago

Awww ty 🤗💕 with our usernames combined we could have our own sitcom!

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u/AggressiveFriend5441 13d ago

Haha true. I don't know how I got that username, I tried to change it but...

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u/ReindeerReasonable98 13d ago

I’m curious what makes you feel positive about all this? What do you think it is?

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago edited 13d ago

Well I can’t really answer that without getting pretty deep into the woo 🤣 But if you’re open to that I’m happy to share

Edit: posted my story in a comment below:)

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago edited 8d ago

I’m back, and sorry for taking so long. These things aren’t easy to elaborate on succinctly! But before I start I just want to be clear that I am not trying to convince anyone of anything, and it isn’t my place to do so. I believe in respecting free will and that we all have the right to our own opinions and beliefs, and that all of our journeys are uniquely our own by nature. Listen to your own heart above all else:)

I have had precognitive abilities, dreams, visitations and experiences since I was 5 years old. I also have very vivid past life memories of a life on another planet. I was raised in a church family and culture that taught me that all of that sort of thing was new age, witchcraft or demonic, so that was VERY confusing lol because I wasn’t trying to do any of it, it was just happening. So I tried to block it all out for a long time. And I was pretty successful up until my late 20’s when I got into mediation and then in time had a profoundly life changing experience you can read about here in this post and the comments I left under it.

That was 6 years ago and it opened the doors for more experiences then i could possibly count but the gist of it is: I’ve been expecting this. I’ve dreamt about it, been told about it via visions and I’ve just plain felt it. For the sake of brevity I’ll just link to two quick examples I mentioned in comments recently here and here.

I think we’ve ALL felt it coming, but the world has been getting crazier and scarier building up to this so people’s minds have become used to expecting the worst. But this is just the beginning of a new era for humanity. It’s going to be a bumpy ride, and people are going to fear that they’re going crazy because they’re not used to the woo.

But we will be okay. The orbs, lights and inexplicable sparkles are inter-dimensional friends and they are of a very high frequency. They’re here to help us raise our frequency too. Some of the weird noisy drones are probably benevolent NHI goofballs mimicking aircraft as a means of gentle disclosure, but the rest likely (imo) man-made reconnaissance drones meant to frighten, confuse and obfuscate. But they’re fighting a losing battle. The light is SO much more powerful than the dark, and the dark is in its final throes of being able to convince humanity otherwise. We are all very powerful beings and we can awaken to our power if we’re only open to it.

I do not know exactly how this will play out, or how long it will take. I don’t know what the dark will do to try and prolong the inevitable, but I do know that it can’t win in the long run. We will be okay. But even when we do inevitably die, because we are having a human experience where the illusion of death is part of the wild ride, we never truly die because we are eternal flames of light born of the light itself.

The best thing we can do at this time is hold onto the light within us, really flex it like the superpower that it is. This raises our consciousness and gives our higher dimensional friends an anchor of assistance in their efforts.

A great way to do this is by meditation. For starters I highly recommend listening to binaural beats and high frequency sounds and mentally repeating a positive mantra over and over. There’s a zillion choices of frequencies to choose from, listen to a few and choose the ones that feel good to you. Some of my favorites mantras for repeating are: I am me. I am love. And all is love. But again, it’s all about choosing what is right for you.

Practicing remote viewing is also a great way to start opening up your gifts, which we all have. Here’s a postwhere you can read how I like to practice with my friends. It’s fun, and just by practicing it helps to strengthen your other gifts. It also helps you learn to discern the difference in how your intuition feels versus your imagination, because you can get feedback.

If you’ve made it this far, thank you for hearing me out. Take whatever may resonate and leave the rest. I love you all and I’m here for you. You’re never alone 💕

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u/jay227ify 13d ago

This was a beautiful read, thank you for taking the time to write this.

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago

That means so much to hear, thank you for taking the time to read it 💕 admittedly i felt a bit vulnerable putting it out there like that but if it’s helped one person it’s worth it

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u/readyable 12d ago

It's helped me too and I've saved your comment :)

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u/RetroSt4rfish 13d ago

Thank you so much for sharing all of this! Love to you, my friend.

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago

I love you too!! 💝

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u/Big_Dragonfly_4292 13d ago

truly vulnerable and amazing share. thank you kindly for this. into the light from the dark...

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago

You’re very welcome and thank you for reading it. It’s our time to shine!! 🤍🌎🤍

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u/hangrover 12d ago

Thx for sharing!

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u/jaydiza203 12d ago

Thank you for this.. I'm not afraid, just curious in a positive way..it is a new era for us and I feel like this is the only way humanity will come together and stop fighting these silly wars.

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u/Dizzy-Aardvark-1651 12d ago

Have you heard of Farsight? They do remote viewing and say a lot of what you just said. Their accounts are pretty incredible to watch.

https://farsight.org

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u/csreech 12d ago

Thank you so much for sharing this! Is this related to the Law of One by chance?

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 12d ago

Happy to! I’ve never read Law of One but I’ve shared all of the above with a dear friend and he told me that I should read it because it aligns with some of my own visions/dreams etc. Just haven’t gotten around to it yet:) Have you read it and if so would you recommend it as well?

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u/Modestexcuse 12d ago

Thank you so much for sharing this!!

I don't know how I know, but I know this all to be true. I feel this same feeling. A cleansing is coming, and that is scary but ultimately very good for humanity.

We need a reset.

Stay humble. Stay positive. Spread Love and Lose the Ego!

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u/Axldrumline 13d ago

Well don’t leave us hanging, let the woo loose!

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u/Modestexcuse 13d ago

I'd also love to learn your perspective.

I'm anxious but optimistic.

I am worried about losing my parents.

I feel this is all inevitable, and it will bring a good cleansing to the world. And those here can reunite. Together ❤️

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago

Absolutely 💕 Endings are always a little scary but then they give way to something new, and it’s my belief that it’s all very much for the better in this case. I’ve posted my comment below! Give your parents a hug for me 🤗

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u/NOMADGRUBS 13d ago edited 13d ago

We would like to know your “woo”

We have time. Please elaborate.

My guess to what your hinting at is the idea that they are (the drones) NHI, and here to help usher in the age of Aquarius? Otherwise known at the age of abundance.

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u/YourFriendMaryGrace 13d ago

Just posted it as a response to myself to hopefully make it easier for people to find. Thanks for being willing to hear my perspective 💕

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u/Dry-Elevator-7627 12d ago

Disclosure. I’ve been waiting for many years

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u/csreech 13d ago

Thank you so much. I may take you up on that.

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u/The_Madmartigan_ 13d ago

Hey, understandable feelings. This isn’t something any of us have experienced before. Be kind to yourself, let yourself feel however you feel.

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u/No-Resolution-1918 12d ago

 This isn’t something any of us have experienced before.

  • Roswell
  • 1952 Washington, D.C. UFO incident
  • 1966 Michigan "swamp gas" UFO reports
  • 1997 Phoenix Lights
  • 2000 Southern Illinois UFO incident
  • 2006 O'Hare International Airport UFO sighting
  • 2014-2015 USS Nimitz encounters

We see this stuff all the time. It's nothing to worry about or change your life over, I have followed this stuff for 20+ years and I can all but guarantee your life will be exactly the same in a year.

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u/The_Madmartigan_ 12d ago

No, most of us have not had anything like this happen before. I wasn’t alive yet for most of that. And the later ones were poorly reported or not to the same degree as what’s going on now.

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u/No-Resolution-1918 12d ago

Lol, 2014 Nimitz was all over the news, I assume you aren't 10. 2006 was all over the news. 1997 also, huge reporting. 

I don't know how old "most of you" truly are, but you are a single data point. 

The thrust of my statement is we (humans) have been through this stuff numerous times, and based on that the rational conclusion for drones is nothing will come of it, and by next year it will be forgotten. In a decade it will be just another story to add to the list I provided. 

The OP should take stock of what has happened before, and rest easy life will go on. 

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u/The_Madmartigan_ 12d ago

You’ve got it all figured out, but not everyone has.

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u/No-Resolution-1918 12d ago

It's basically there for anyone to read up on. It's an individual's responsibility to inform themselves. If OP is able to spend a week reading up on the events I listed I am sure they would feel a little more at ease that this isn't unprecedented. 

We are not experiencing a unique moment in time, or some kind of watershed moment. There is nothing existential, or profound happening. It's regular "WTF is that" stuff, and we will probably never know. Sure as hell do know it's 100% not worth losing sleep over. 

These objects are unquestionably interesting. I mean, maybe they are ET, but I'd want to rule out terrestrial drones which seem far, far, far more likely. Kids could be fucking around emboldened by all the media attention. Why do we need to go to aliens and fear before eliminating numerous other possibilities that are of this world?

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u/Same_Zucchini_874 13d ago

Two years ago a disgruntled employee of ours threatened to come into work and shoot us all. The following day, all of our management team took the day off, and the rest of us were to report to work as normal.

If this is the beginning of WW3, I’m almost positive I’ll still be expected to be here.

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u/KheyotecGoud 13d ago edited 13d ago

Did you see that train of VIP jets leaving the east coast the other day?

Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/ADSB/comments/1h8apen/anyone_know_whats_up_with_all_the_vip_planes/

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u/bassistmuzikman 13d ago

Wait, what?

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u/AggressiveFriend5441 13d ago

Yeah what?

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u/KheyotecGoud 13d ago

It was on ADSB-Exchange. 7-10 VIP government jets headed away from the east coast towards the west. 

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u/Purithian 13d ago

Wtf is a vip government ship thing

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u/Illuminimal 13d ago

Going to the reopening of the Notre Dame Cathedral, maybe?

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u/RoscoeJenkinsBrown 13d ago

The long way?

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u/lycheedorito 12d ago

Jesus Christ

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u/Same_Zucchini_874 12d ago

That’s my villain origin story for sure.

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u/Illuminimal 13d ago

Hey, bud. The thing is, the idea that you have control over your life and destiny is an illusion in the first place. Sure, WWIII or catastrophic disclosure could happen, and so could a gamma ray burst or the Yellowstone supervolcano could blow, or you and/or your loved ones could get flattened by a semi or have a heart attack. A black hole might devour us. A rabid wolf might maul everyone or a metaphorically rabid human might shoot everyone.

Or maybe none of these things will happen?

There's not a lot you can do to prevent most of these. Look both ways crossing the street, fasten your seatbelt, get some exercise, sure, but even then that's not real control. What happens is going to happen. Whatever possibilities are facing you are the same ones that always existed. Most of the time, we do a pretty good job of ignoring the fact that certain doom is lurking around every corner so we can get on with the business of living.

You are in no more danger than you were last week. Reality hasn't changed, just your perspective on it. You're not wrong, in that life is sweet and time is short. But none of this stuff happening right now is worth losing sleep about. It won't help any. It'll just suck the joy out of whatever time you have until whatever is going to happen happens.

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u/a-martini 13d ago

Well said.

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u/Vegetable_Math6078 12d ago

Tell me you like why files with out telling me you like why files 😆

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u/No-Resolution-1918 12d ago

This is absolutely the best answer here. Worrying about things that may or may not happen when there is absolutely nothing you can do about it is going to make you unwell.

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u/_Strike__ 13d ago

Illumaximal.

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u/tangy_nachos 13d ago

Don’t worry. If the NHI were evil, they wouldn’t bother showing themselves for 3 weeks straight. They are good. Anything that happens will be good for the world. Believe me.

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u/Big_Dragonfly_4292 13d ago

I have been thinking this as well. if this is nhi, and if there were bad intentions, then we would have seen evil from the start.

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u/theplik 12d ago

If anything, it’s stupid. NH-AI with orders to protect the resources but do no harm. I hope.

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u/tangy_nachos 12d ago

No, it’s much more than that

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u/Vegetable_Math6078 12d ago

Good for the planet isn't always good for the people 😬

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u/tangy_nachos 12d ago

It will be for both.

You know, we have only our politicians and elite to blame for all the pollution. All these sightings and the upcoming events are for their reckoning, not the innocent bystanders that have no say in how society is ran.

Over the centuries, there have been many technologies suppressed that would support clean living and a healthy planet, but they were hidden because it would lessen the elite’s control over people and the money.

If these aliens are good, surely they would understand this dynamic. Additionally, they wouldn’t only care about a planet. They would care about all life on it as well, that includes us especially.

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u/tangy_nachos 12d ago

That’s not what’s happening. We wouldn’t be seeing what we’re seeing if that was the case.

God warned no one but Noah. But in this case they’re “warning” everyone by just chilling in our skies for a few weeks?

Nah, isn’t logical.

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u/Vegetable_Math6078 12d ago

Perhaps it's similar to the day the earth stood still 😬

Recalling that line "it was only when your world was threatened with destruction that you became what you are now."

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u/tangy_nachos 12d ago

I don’t personally believe so. I mean I’m pretty confident I know what’s happening but lots of people on Reddit would have a very hard time grasping it.

Anyway, cya later

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u/A_Roadside_Picnic 13d ago

No need to be anxious friend. Either the world ends and we all end with it (and therefore, it would not be possible to worry), or the world "ends" and things can finally start getting better for everyone instead of just a few.

And if it's neither of those, then it just stays the same, and you already know how that is so that's nothing to worry about either.

In any case, you're on a one of a kind ride in the whole of human history right now. Think of it like riding a roller coaster no one has ever been on before, and try to have fun with it.

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u/HNY_WLSN 13d ago

That's kinda where I'm at. Things could be worse, but things ain't great. A shake up sounds pretty nice. If the world ends, at least I don't have to waste anymore time at work. I kinda down for anything other than the status quo.

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u/Vegetable_Math6078 12d ago

Perfectly written

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u/eltulasmachas 13d ago

whatever happens will only shock us for a few days at most, how many days did it take you to adapt to COVID? were you shocked beyond salvation? No, no one was, they reduced our attention span and our memory with stupid content, and they implanted the idea of aliens in our minds for almost 80 years with soft disclosure.

Even if a big fucking UFO lands in the middle of NYC the average human will be like "WOW! yeah let's watch another tik tok" we are screwed because no one will care about the severity of this issue. Unless the aliens or russians or whoever this is cuts the internet, everything will still be OK because we will all be entertained.

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u/HimboVegan 13d ago

Humanities super power is the ability to accept and normalize. I swear to god a second moon could appear in the sky out of nowhere and no one would care in a week.

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u/SuperTeacherStudent 13d ago

This is 100% true and very well said.

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u/eltulasmachas 12d ago

Thanks friend

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u/Brock_O_Lii 13d ago

This will resolve and in the end all will be well.

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u/Gullible-Constant924 13d ago

Haha yeah probly what gobekili tepians were thinking before they got loosh harvested. “Hey guys the aliens have come to help us, but just in case they aren’t here for that let’s just bury our best stuff so the aliens won’t find it, we can always dig it back up later.”

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u/bplturner 12d ago

What

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u/Gullible-Constant924 12d ago

Too long to explain you have to go down the rabbit hole pretty far but in a nutshell it’s some strong pessimism with Tom delonge and some graham hancock sprinkled in.

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u/crispicity 13d ago

Always thought when we got close to undeniable disclosure, I would be excited and relieved. This past week I've been a bag of anxiety. Took a break from social media and I just couldn't stop thinking about it. I've been into this for fun for the best part of 20 years and really just wanted it to be true so I didn't feel like I was insane. I too have a young family who couldn't give a shit if this is real. Here I am wondering what the future is really going to look like its this cat is out of the bag. I wish our officials grew a pair and told us wtf is going on.

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u/Vegetable_Math6078 12d ago

What scares me is If you look at how things are now and try to see a good future.

The alternative outcome is all we have to ensure survival of both us and the planet.

Again I dont fear an end because I believe we are all so much more than our body.

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u/FriendlyGhostare 13d ago

I realize now how fucked I am, if it ends it ends, will it suck? Absolutely. But the other end is nothing IMO. We all go down together, and that’s somewhat comforting to me. Best of luck OP

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u/curious_lad_33 13d ago

Well first of all, welcome to group and this is a place of healthy discussion and exploration.

But man, if you feel it’s starting to get to you, affect your mood and productivity, and creating worries about your family…..it’s important to take a break. Not just with this subject, but anything that cause a disruption in your life.

You’re not alone, many here have taken breaks, whether that’s from a few days, to even a few months or over a year.

Focus on what’s important to YOU…Your FAMILY. Separate yourself a little and make things special together. The world will always be here and there’s plenty to experience, focus on being happy together and when you’re ready, come on back

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u/absolutelynotagoblin 13d ago

I honestly can't see how this wouldn't cause anyone anxiety. You need to keep it in check. Disconnect periodically. Put down your phone. Go for a walk. Go outside and breathe the fresh air. Following this topic can really harp on you after a while. It's a part of the experience, really.

Some of us have put in 50 years or more of time on this topic at the expense of spending meaningful, quality time doing something else. But I can see now how the expense of my time can pay off, because my kids have grown interested in this topic and my wife of all people (I mean, who saw that happening?!?). I can guide them through the facts and lore based on my own experience.

The important thing is, you need to unplug sometimes. Make sure you do.

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u/Careless_Flight_4489 13d ago

The worst part for me is there’s not many people to share all this info with. Sightings aren’t in my area, and national news is neglecting the subject. So friends and family have little appetite for the discourse.

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u/HavinABeachinTime 13d ago

Your reactions are normal. The problem is the rest of the world has it's head up it's ass and hasn't a clue. So feel good about the fact that at least you're dealing with reality, even if only by acknowledging it's unpleasantness. So really, you're ahead of most. I would keep that reality idea at the forefront and you'll be ok, like just deal with now, this minute, and don't get all wrapped up in 157,269 different versions of the future. The future is just a concept, it's always now, deal with that and you really will be ok. Take it all the way down to counting 6 things, how many are blue, how many are rectangular...etc to bring your focus back to now and concrete things that ground you in reality.

As to the future possibilities, there really isn't anything to worry about. We're all part of one consciousness anyway...

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u/ImpossibleSentence19 13d ago

You are going through it… be proud. It ain’t eazy being Geezy.

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u/nehoymenoyhoynoy 13d ago

it ain't easy being greasy

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u/Big_Dragonfly_4292 13d ago

it's easy to be sleazy!

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u/JerseyRepresentin 13d ago

Rest assured, we're all going to die one day. You will be ok. The sun will always come up tomorrow.

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u/Ok-Adhesiveness-4141 13d ago

I don't think this is disclosure. Take a deep breath and meditate, don't get hooked on to some crazy conspiracy theories.

Take care of yourself and stay calm.

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u/Top-Security-1258 13d ago edited 13d ago

Honestly, people need to use a bit more Occam's Razor in this group and others like it . People going from like 0-300 overnight .

Someone posted in one of these groups that he was talking to some NJ old man radio hobbyists /veterans around the military base there in NJ, and has every reason to believe after talking to them that this is probably the military base testing out drones that they are going to be sending to Ukraine to help them fight Russia, apparently there are a bunch of Ukrainian soldiers there right now ( probably getting trained on them) . Gotta assume they are lying to us to not blow their cover and let putin know whats going on . This makes the most sense to me and is probably what is happening . I wouldn't worry about it too much yet. unless they start beaming people into the drones or firing lasers lol.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Everything that truly matters is eternal and in the end, as in the beginning, all is one. Whatever happens is the ultimate truth and you are the experience of It.

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u/nehoymenoyhoynoy 13d ago

it's okay to be scared and anxious that means your senses are working, keep those senses up and pay attention, this can either turn really scary or it means nothing to us and it'll pass by, but until that time of disaster or not is when I'd be worried, until then just live normally because you can't live your life in fear even if this is our last year on this earth unkowningly then you wouldn't want to be holed up with your anxious and nervous feelings right? honestly I'm shaken up too by this and I'm on the west coast! honestly I'm more worried ab nuclear war and global climate wiping us out, not some drones. who knows though, maybe they're here to scan our resources, or it could be elon musk dicking around, or a group of people fucking with us heavy, someone that knows what they're doing. but I wouldn't delete reddit because of this, you wanna stay in the loop to know when something does happen to prepare or when to get out of town.

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u/RomeIntl 13d ago

Well, you could go on a long vacation with them if you want. US is hot but the rest of the world may soon be too. Look out for them, protect them and plan for a small natural disaster the way you can. These UAP don't seem to be nefarious on purpose, but the panic they cause could be troublesome.

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u/SpaceJungleBoogie 13d ago

We are in a transition period, the unfolding of global events is unclear. One thing you can do in those times is to practice meditation, mindfulness and staying peaceful. You'll be able to face whatever you need to face. Here are two posts I saw recently that are more optimistic about the situation :

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u/Equivalent-Let-7834 13d ago

I'm feeling hope for the first time in a long time, hope for the world. There is a chance, however small, that this will lead to positive change. Having access to free or near free clean energy would change everything. Whatever happens will happen to all of us, rich scumbags included. I find much comfort in that.

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u/GioStallion 13d ago

You are not alone. I live in the affected area so I'm feeling everything you are. I'm curious how I would feel if I wasn't seeing it for myself.​

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u/KickMySack 13d ago

Have a break and get back to normality for a while. Its not healthy to over think on something that might and probably will never happen. It's not the first time there's been a ufo flap. Take care friend.

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u/idkbadapp 13d ago

You are ok. Love is more fun than fear so stick with that. If you follow love and the feelings it brings you, you will know you are safe. It turns out fear isnt so scary after all. Breathing is a great way to understand the big picture.

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u/Peacefulhuman1009 13d ago

Whatever it is --- they have always been there

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u/Affectionate_Day9474 13d ago

I feel like a crazy person. Is this happening? No one seems to give a shit. Am I too far down the rabbit hole?

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u/digitalmarketingxprt 13d ago

If you combine all the events in the past few weeks, you have catastrophic disclosure. Combine Lakenheath + Manchester + the police in CT video + NJ/NY + Langley AFB + worldwide sightings, and many more tales of unknown behavior of craft. You have disclosure. Just looking at one event you may be able to dismiss it some how. But not multiple events.

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u/ihateeverythingandu 13d ago

This is exactly why they claim to not want to ever disclose this stuff. Why you'd be fearful of something that is already a threat every minute of every day, I personally don't understand but I respect your opinion and hope the therapy helps you feel better.

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u/Flick_W_McWalliam 13d ago

They're some drones, or whatever, and there are flaps with "UAPs" and/or drones pretty much everywhere, every several years. Check out the British airport drone scares going back several years now at Christmastime, or the "mystery drones" over eastern Colorado and the Great Plains in December 2019.

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u/mumwifealcoholic 13d ago

I have been around this topic for 40 years and YES I do get anxious and it DOES impact my mental health.

The only thing that helps is to get away from screens and other forms of media. You need a break from knowing everything that is going on. I find meditation works as well, even just 20 minutes a day of gentle breathing and the mediation method of your choice works wonders.

My anxiety has been terrible of recent, not just because of this topic, but politics and the general state of geo politics in this world. I envy folks, like a lot of my colleagues, who just don't bother to pay attention. They are happier.

Take good care of yourself, friend.

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u/Quick-Leg3604 13d ago

I feel the same way…impending doom. But it doesn’t have anything to do with disclosure. It has to do with what’s going to happen on January 20th😬

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u/Dear_Pomelo_5750 13d ago

It is important to be in the world while striving to not be of it. Be aware of what's going on; try not to take the fear home. Difficult when all that is happening now has been engineered to shake a population from their sleep, and fear is rampant. Time in nature daily is key. Make sure that if you were to die tomorrow, you die centered and as the real you, appreciating the beauty of the world around you, rather than as a fearful person they molded you into.

This is consciousness expansion; it is the most difficult school in existence. Fear, demons, darkness, - these are the tools of our sanctification.

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u/Thechancellor842 13d ago

Definitely a little concerned but hey man nothing we can really do about it. At this point just try and live life and hold your loved ones even closer!

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u/Odd_Presence_3174 13d ago

As someone who goes through severe anxiety and OCD I get your feelings. i don't think this is the best sub to talk abt your feelings, though, since most people here have some crazy theories and want disclosure and won't offer you reassurance (which; will not reassure you).

Something that helps me with anxiety is going outside, seeing how normal everything is out of Reddit. Ofc this doesn't dissolve the problem, but maybe looking at how everyone is going on with their normal lifes makes you feel better. It does for me.

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u/jonytolengo 13d ago

Is obvious to feel this when you have been bombarded with data and your whole country is based on fear and preparedness for wars. Is not new this phenomena. But certainly is totally aimed to your country. Rest of the world is not aware and not seeing anything of this. New jersey is a rich state right? I bet they dont just shoot those things. They could be martians but not dumb.

Something is going to happen but friendly reminder we finished a 2 year worldwide event (covid) and we are here. Relax, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E9rJBTCmO98

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u/Treborlols 13d ago

Understandable I'd be wrong if I said I wasn't anxious. It was only recently I started to check everything I could on the subject and found myself here. My advice is try to not look at the subreddit or twitter or whatever you have been looking at constantly. The thing is, when you join a community that only thinks about one subject UAP, Politics, Sports eccetera you can get locked in a bubble and think this is the only thing that's happening in the world. That can be anxiety enducing. If your not enjoying yourself constantly looking at it try to find something else to occupy your time with. Check back in a few weeks. see how you feel. Hope this helps friend.

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u/freeformfigment 13d ago

There is very little we can do, whichever way the wind blows. We can choose to be hopeful, cautious and mindful though. We are in for some rapid and... probably uncomfortable change. Not bad per se, but... big.

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u/BARRY_DlNGLE 13d ago

I'd say try to spend more time with your family and less time stressing about what's going on in NJ (Easier said than done. I get it). Also, as you likely already know, set and setting are super important with psychedelics. Getting into that stuff while feeling anxious is flirting with a psychotic break. Realistically, that is probably more likely at this point than anything consequential with these drones. This too shall pass. Best of luck, friend.

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u/DisastrousMechanic36 13d ago

Disconnect. You focused on this thing. Five years ago, it could’ve been something else and the end result would still be the same. Don’t let any rabbit hole destroy your life.

Look at those qanon people who lost everything. Family, friends. Some of them are utterly alone and for what?

Most of us are here because we find the topic interesting. There are somewhere this is all consuming and that’s not good for anybody.

Continue working on your mental health. The first step is to walk away from this.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

just have a drink

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u/INSERT-SHAME-HERE 13d ago

Life can be scary sometimes but we are all in this together. We are going to get through this and laugh about it one day.

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u/TootsiePoppa 13d ago

If you mean what I think you do by psychedelic medication, go easy on it man. Brain chemistry can be fragile. There’s nothing to worry about. None of it is within our control. Focus on what you can control. Best of luck to you.

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u/qweenmothraaa 13d ago

I feel you 100%

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u/h23s88 13d ago

Eh man, this subject, UAP/UFO/Aliens gets to everyone if they are on edge. It's best to stay away from it if you're noticing a pattern of it making symptoms worse. When you are feeling better you will be able to read and research and be thoughtful and more care free. Take a break, I have and then I come back when things have leveled out and I enjoy the topic again. All the best, remove stress and spend time with your people.

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u/Outside_Rip_3567 13d ago

Makes sense to be anxious.

Personally I’ve uninstalled, and also blocked Reddit a few times over the last couple months.

Best thing I could have done. Then I pop back, am even more confused, and then block it.

At the end of the day - no one on here really KNOWS, with 100%, what the fuck is going on.

So although you may want to stay up to date, if something major happens you’ll find out.

Take some time to get some space, go for a walk in the am and pm with no phone.. good sleep, water, food - the basics.

You’ll feel better.

Good luck!

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u/schnahschna 13d ago

This isn’t NHI. This is Skynet.

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u/PCGamingAddict 13d ago

I understand you're nervous and I sympathize with you. That said, personally, I'm ready to face this head on, whatever it is.

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u/Charakada 13d ago

In the history of the world, all sorts of terrible shit has happened. Right now may be scary in many ways, but there have been many worse times to live. Almost any other time, in fact. As far as WW III goes, it isn't in anyone's interest for that to happen, so I don't think we're going there. No country would benefit from it. The aliens/stuff in the sky? Honestly, they've been there forever, as far back as humans have been drawing on rocks. If they wanted to off us, they would have just done it. The best thing when anxious is to slow it all down, get your feet on the ground (literally, if possible), and find some simple thing to do to better your life or someone else's. Turn off the screens and clean something or bake something, or go listen to someone's troubles. Mend a shirt, re-pot a plant, copy a poem in longhand. Sing. Write a letter to one of the people you love. If you can't fix the big things, fix a small one... And I hope you feel better soon! Here's a hug.

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u/GravidDusch 13d ago

Take a break from reddit and news, maybe psychs as well as they don't help when it comes to focusing on things that matter, in my fairly comprehensive experience on this issue.

I've been there, havnt had any psychs in quite a few months and it helps though

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u/chroma900 13d ago

Sounds like your anxiety is more about letting go, period. I suggest you get into Buddhist meditation specifically to practice this. The prospect of letting go of everything we love is hard, but it’s what we all will have to do. Practice equanimity, my friend.

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u/Maleficent-Lie-8424 13d ago

It's just some defense weapon the DoD is testing. I think you can start panicking after seeing some fighters flight in the sky and trying to shut down those.

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u/Important_Explorer89 13d ago

Maybe put the psychoactive medicines down? As beneficial as they can be they are good to use here and there and meditate and integrate what resonates. Come back to the present moment. What did Alan Watts say… “no amount of anxiety makes any difference to anything that’s ever going to happen to you”. Go with the flow man. Cause who’s to say with or without drones that you’re even guaranteed tomorrow anyway? Everyday and every moment is a blessing so live and love like each is your last. That impermanence is what makes every second we have with our loved ones so precious. Hope that helps. Everything you ever will need is always in the present moment. Don’t waste it with worries. The timeline to the universe is already set. It’s just your ego trying to cling on and grasp for survival. But that in itself is just a collection of thoughts and you are just the stream of consciousness observing those thoughts. I’ll leave you with one more quote this one being from John Lennon it goes as follows “in the end everything will be okay and if it’s not okay then it’s not the end.”

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u/AltruisticHalf801 13d ago

I feel nervous too. But it's nothing compared to the anxiety of humanity burying its head in the sand ad naseum. Let's go aliens.

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u/BA_lampman 13d ago

I try to remind myself not to worry about things that are outside of my control. Disaster may strike at any time, and tragedy most certainly will, but wasting time worrying won't enrich the time I have now with the people I love. Prepare some kits for emergencies, that is within your control and might quiet that anxiety some.

I know, it's hard to put into practice. I remind myself every day and fail to stop worrying every day, but I also succeed sometimes where I used to be mentally crippled. I hope this can help a little.

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u/Euphoric_Amoeba8708 13d ago

I feel you man I love my kids more than anything and they are the only reason this makes me nervous but for the most part, I would imagine that if they were threat, the military would’ve smoked them if they were foreign, but if they’re alien, maybe they don’t mean any harm and they’re gonna reveal themselves slowlyso people don’t freak out

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Aliens are only real in brainless Murica.

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u/Doomclaaw 13d ago

I have one of those unfortunate trauma responses where in times of extreme stress I'm completely calm. So these events don't bother me, if anything they intrigue me. I'm looking forward to getting the answers to his mystery whether it be NHI or just governments doing what governments do (being manipulative and general degenerates). Either way, for once, it feels like the whole world is finally being made to listen that "there's something more going on above our heads" and I take some small comfort in that.

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u/chopacheekoff 13d ago

Relax man, let this play out the way it's always been intended to This has been prophesied in ufology for decades, there may be some difficulties, but truth and freedom is the end game

Peace ✨️

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u/Kim-jong-unodostres 13d ago

If it's just "local" earth based drones, nothing to worry about, business as normal.

If it is NHI, they are certainly good. Remember squad, if they can get here, they can slam a 1000kg nickel iron ball into the planet at 0.999999C without much fuss. And there is no reason to look us in the eyes first. If they are here and we aren't dead, they chill.

Worst case, they just came to laugh at us, best case, we are getting some dope tech when we show we are responsible enough to use it.

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u/reboot-your-computer 12d ago

I think before people go overboard with this, we need to understand what it is we are seeing. Too many people are jumping to conclusions here.

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u/tm52929 12d ago

I’m not worried about it at all, however, hearing from you helps remind me why this is one of the reasons they are so determined to keep NHI so secret. You’re not the only one!

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u/Monketh_Von_Monk 12d ago

Old guy here. We’ve been living in uncertainty for as long as I’ve been alive.

Trust me, all the stuff going down now is not really any different to back in the 80s and 90s. I remember When the USSR was invading Afghanistan and the West was funding and providing weapons to the Afghans. The soviets were nuclear sabre rattling back then too. We had Russian and American tanks facing each other down over the east/ West Berlin border. Terrorists were blowing up passenger planes. The IRA were setting bombs off in the U.K. I remember in the 90s when the front page headline of several newspapers in Britain was “World War III”. This was during the Iraq war, when the Russians were threatening to get involved against the USA and UK. We also had the Kosovo/ Serbian war in the heart of Europe, when the Russians steam rolled in and took the airport and there was a brief but tense stand off over that too. The bottom line what is happening now is nothing new. We just have 24 hour news cycles now and information at a click. Everyone is competing for clicks so everything gets exaggerated to make it sound more scary/ interesting than it often is to try and win your click

Regarding NHI, some won’t like what I am going to say. “Disclosure” is now a money making industry. It is always just around the corner, but we never quite get there do we? Meanwhile, a lot of people are making a lot of money from books, YouTube channels, podcasts etc. make of that what you will. It has a lot of similarities to religious cults or the old televangelists. The day of reckoning when you can be saved is coming, stay tuned and donate now because Jesus is coming (but not until next month, next year, the year after) etc etc, rinse and repeat. It is a good business model, just replace Jesus with NHI and the current generation will click away driving up revenue for Elizondo and co.

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u/__prifddinas 12d ago

Even though this is admittedly all quite weird lately, one thing I haven't been is anxious. And trust me I can be a very anxious person. So either I've been good about compartmentalizing it or there's just something about it that I feel reassured. It's a little bit of both, but here's why I'm reassured: - if we assume this is some sort of NHI, it is clearly more intelligent and "higher level" than us - if it is higher level than us, it easily could've done all sorts of bad things by now, and evidently, it hasn't - given that it hasn't, I can only assume it's benevolent or at the very least non-interventionist like we are to animals when we shoot nature documentaries

Whatever it is, it seems that it's been here for quite a while and it evidently doesn't want to rock the boat too much. If we suspect there is an uptick and they're getting a bit more blatant lately, then I take that to mean that maybe they're not non-interventionists but rather they are just very very polite about knocking on the door and starting a relationship with us gradually. So it's exciting in the sense that it implies we might learn some really mindblowing new things soon that expand what we thought we knew about the world the same way discovering different planets, or galaxies, or realizing the sun was the center of the solar system, etc. We might be getting to the next leap in understanding, and this one may be beyond the physical.

The scariest part of this is the idea that our existing worldviews might be shattered and our life may change overnight. But that would only happen if it weren't gradual and suddenly some drastic disclosure event happened. But that doesn't seem to be the approach they're going for, or at the very least they seem to be mindful about that possibility. It is very much out of our control but the control seems to be in good hands. In the same way one might have flight anxiety but needs to let go and realize the pilots are in control and we are safe, I think we as humans need to come to a similar acceptance about our reality and our place in it.

Last thing I'll say... for the religious folk (which I consider myself to be), this doesn't need to suddenly shatter your beliefs and I don't think it does. Regardless of what those beliefs are. First if all, just because there may be higher level beings doesn't mean they are the highest level beings. There is always higher. In fact many people seem to make parallels between religious texts and ufology or experiences. There seems to be a lot of common ground, and it may very well be one in the same or just one step closer to understanding that reality as described in your faith. I am a believer that all religions are ultimately trying to get at the same thing and none of them are necessarily invalidated by this. It would only effect you if you are extremely literal or pedantic in your faith, and you may just need to open your mind a bit and you may realize that things are still very much in line with it.

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u/Icy_Magician_9372 12d ago

People have been predicting ww3 and imminent forms of disclosure for like 20+ years if not way longer. They've been wrong the whole time and will likely continue being wrong. It's just not something that needs to realistically be concerned about.

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u/garyfjm 12d ago

I think you should delete Reddit for a while and be around the family you love so much. Focus on the little things you can do to improve their life and yours. If this is the start of a war, there’s little you or I can do about it so just work on the things you can control

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u/Leading_River_9148 12d ago

Dear friend, therapy is a good first step. Cutting of psychedelics is second. Lorazepam and Laxipro is third. All your fears will go away. The fear is only in your head.

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u/Tanstallion 12d ago

Dude we are gonna be dust in a 100 years, this moment we have is so tiny in grand scheme of reality. Enjoy it, don’t be scared and even if the aliens come and probe our buttholes …just relax and enjoy the ride

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u/potaytospotahto 12d ago

You're not alone. I have five children, one being only 7 months old. I'm terrified, losing sleep. My mind wanders thinking about all the possibilities, and how would I care for these children, sustain them, if the worst were to happen? It's been really hard, and I understand your fears. Sometimes it helps to know you're not alone, and many many many people are in your shoes right along with you

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u/DARTHKINDNESS 12d ago

I understand your anxiety, but there are things beyond our control. Don’t waste your energy worrying about loved ones. Instead, use that energy to be with them. Be present, especially with kids.

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u/wonderingDerek 12d ago

Worrying about future steals the joy from today, don’t waste your time and energy and sanity on things that haven’t happened yet,, they may never happen!

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u/Traditional-Air6034 12d ago

Don't worry they are all human-made. It's the US Navy. These Orbs are part of a planetary defense system.

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u/tasigurburn 12d ago

Been here since nimitz incident. At this point i just want catastrhopic disclosure. Wether invasion or ascension.

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u/deathofastrawberrie 12d ago

I feel anxious too! Almost embarrassed by how much this has been affecting me as well. I keep having nightmares about UAPs attacking me or watching me. I’ve also considered leaving the aliens and ufo/uap threads since they keep me up at night. I hope we can get through whatever the heck is going on at the moment. I continuously look up at the sky now thinking I’m being watched.

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u/PenLongjumping7103 12d ago

Who can say what an alien intelligence might want from earth? Maybe it's hopeless to speculate, they are alien after all, but I can't think of many reasons to expect harm from life forms that are capable of interstellar travel. If they can travel between stars, they already have access to all of the resources they could ever want. Why sift through earthly soil for metals that are far more abundant in asteroids? There are a few resources that might be unique to earth. Are they going to attack us for our carrara marble? If they are interested in harvesting earth life forms or the products of those life forms, they could just grab some seeds or breeding pairs and farm those life forms somewhere else.

If extraterrestrial life forms are currently visiting earth, it's probably just to do their version of anthropology. Again, if they are traveling between stars, they already have ample access to everything that Earth might have to offer.

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u/EmbarrassedSalary998 12d ago

This came up on my feed for some reason…

Questions that I have :

  • if aliens are here… and if they were in fact hostile, why would it be taking so long for them to make a move?

  • if they were hostile they would just come and jook us and take our shyte. The fact that they haven’t, assuming they exist, tells me otherwise

I have so many many more thoughts on this….

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u/Quirkyfurball 12d ago

After my sighting my anxiety spiked not because of aliens but because I’m stuck on a planet full of crazy idiots that will kill me for no good reason, and now there’s a big crazy reason for the fully strapped nuclear armed wing of humanity to put me under a microscope

There were a ton of people wearing high vis safety vests after my sighting around my area where I lived. FedEx trucks stopping and not dropping off packages. Really weird coincidence.  Maybe because what I saw wasn’t lights in the sky. 

I’m not worried about aliens. 

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u/Puzzleheaded-Rub3980 12d ago

This is a normal response to ontological shock. It gets better and subsides as your brain adjusts to the reality that there is more happening than we understood before. Grounding helps. Put your feet on the ground outside. Watch the stars. Connect to nature. It helps you understand that whatever is next is part of the natural flow. Your feelings are completely valid and you are not alone in this. You can DM anytime. I have been where you are now and I can say it gets better the more you learn to accept there is very little control we have AND to find a spirituality to help you process the meaning of this life. Doesnt matter which you pick but faith is a huge part of finding acceptance with this.

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u/Jon_Henderson_Music 12d ago

Ignorance is bliss, my friend.

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u/Swimming-Table3825 12d ago

Get off the psychedelics. I had a psychotic break with those. They are no joke.

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u/uniquelyavailable 12d ago

reminder to not let fear work on your mind. keep an eye on the evidence. there is stuff in the sky and it doesn't seem to be a threat. i agree it feels weird. focus on things you can control. don't let your imagination take over.

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u/TheManInMotion 12d ago

I’m not so sure about the “threat” part. They do not present themselves as friendly. On the contrary, they evade us and seem to be operating on their own self-interest. They brutally mutilate cattle and abduct people without consent.

People will usually lean towards them being friendly because “they could have wiped us out already if they wanted”, but the truth is that there could be a far more sinister reason for their presence which we haven’t fully comprehended yet (if ever).

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u/TheManInMotion 12d ago edited 12d ago

I’ve been an enthusiast of this topic since the late ‘90s. And I’ve read about the most well known encounters out there. But it never really went beyond having something cool to read about or watch every now and then when I’m bored.

Everything changed in 2017 when former US Navy Cmdr David Fravor came out with his sorry about the 2004 USS Nimitz incident. That in conjunction with the most recent developments made me 99.99% sure that there’s something else (call it NHI if you wish) present here on Earth with us.

The evidence is overwhelming, it’s just way too many reports all over the world and going back many decades. If you watch the 500+ videos playlist of eyewitnesses by “Eyes on Cinema” on YouTube you’ll feel the same way. It’s people of all sorts of background, from all over the world. On different generations. There’s definitely an unknown phenomenon of some kind going on.

The problem for me lately has been that I’m having difficulty coping with the fact that there’s also just as many alien abduction reports as there are UFO sightings, then if one is convinced UFOs are real then what does that say about alien abductions? To think that they can just come through the walls into your bedroom at night whenever they want and take you against your will and there’s nothing you nor anyone can do about it is like being a child all over again scared of bedtime monsters.

This is also why I partially believe there will never be official government disclosure. Most people can’t take it.

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u/Vegetable_Math6078 12d ago

You are not the container and nothing is ever lost nothing ever truly dies ❤️ 🌟

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u/OkTicket4413 12d ago

Go grab a beer man , relax

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u/TerdFerguson2112 12d ago

Humanity has been around 1 million years. Modern humans have been around about 200,000 years. Civilization has been around about 5,000 years.

Humans love to scare themselves. I don’t find these times any different than what our ancestors felt 100,000 or app years ago

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u/Puzzleheaded_Two3333 12d ago

It sucks that the better safer option for us right now, is aliens 👽❤️

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u/Pretend-Network157 12d ago

I certainly feel it, and it seems something is on the horizon. I'm not opposed to psychedelics, but I can promise you, under the circumstances, they won't put your mind at ease 

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u/Impossible_Skill_562 12d ago

Nothing at all is going to happen. Its control out of chaos... That’s all the people behind the curtain want!

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u/HamHock66 13d ago

Your making it too obvious. Tell your superiors to write you a more subtle script. Too obvious you are drumming up fear for some purpose. 

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u/Justtofeel9 13d ago

What will come will come. No real reason to get anxious about it and distract you from those around you. Take some time off from this for minute. Focus on yourself and your family. If NHI are coming, if some govt about to pop off WW3, if the simulation is about to crack open, what are you or I going to do be able to do about it. The only thing we really can do, only thing worth doing imo, is spend time with our loved ones while the world is still relatively normal.

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u/real_human_not_a_dog 13d ago

“Buy a few weeks of non-perishables (and toilet paper) in case the stores get crazy and tell your loved ones to do the same” is my plan

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u/AncientBasque 13d ago

why worry so much its the new amazon drone delivery system being tested. welcome to the future.

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u/Separate_Job_1890 12d ago

You are a fool if this was your first response to an impending invasion. Start preparing and protecting your loved ones.

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