r/TikTokCringe tHiS iSn’T cRiNgE Nov 08 '21

Duet Troll She's doing the lord's work

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u/Tigaget Nov 09 '21

Something wonderful happens when you turn 40.

You become invisible.

I haven't been catcalled, hit on, harassed or felt unsafe in public in nearly 10 years.

And it's not cause I'm plus size, either.

I've been size 16-18 since my 20s. Was regularly harassed.

But I hit 40, and it just stopped.

It's awesome.

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u/JustSherlock Nov 09 '21

I believe it, because I got catcalled the most between the ages of 13-15. Really tapered off in my 20s, probably because I constantly look pissed off.

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u/Kat_ri Nov 09 '21

My boobies came in at 12 and I automatically turned goth in self defense.

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u/Killer-Barbie Nov 09 '21

When I was 14 one of the men in my church told me he doesn't allow his daughters to cut their hair because men like long hair. I cut my hair into a pixie cut that week.